Do you still feel lonely in love

Many people believe that when we feel lonely in this world, we should seek the shelter of love. They believe that love is the most profound emotion - it is the adhesive that makes us closer; She is the greatest pleasure we can experience in life.

In some cases, this idea is indeed true, but love can be unpredictable. You may fall in love with someone you will never get; You may have fallen in love with someone who doesn't love you; You may also have fallen in love with someone who is not good at expressing emotions and love. Falling in love with a 'bad person' is the most heartbreaking thing.

So, is love really the cure for loneliness? Will she also fall into a misunderstanding?

As a professional relationship regulator, I help my clients cultivate a sense of closeness to others, rather than love. Cultivating a sense of closeness is a reliable method in promoting mutual understanding and care between two individuals. A sense of closeness can solve the uncertain problems in love, such as reliability.

Love sometimes makes us less lonely, but sometimes it makes us feel even more lonely. And the sense of closeness will only reduce the feeling of loneliness you experience because you are in this world.

Many relationships eventually develop into love but do not form a sense of intimacy. If you want to evaluate the level of intimacy in your relationship with your partner, you can ask yourself these five questions:

·Can my partner get to know me well, especially about some things related to my life goals?

·My partner often goes his own way, preventing me from participating in it?

·Is there something important that my partner doesn't know about me?

·Will my partner prioritize me?

·Will my partner truly be happy for me when something good happens to me?

These questions are not simply answered with "yes" or "no", and their answers may be ambiguous with "probably" or "probably not". These questions can indicate that you and your partner may lack some intimacy apart from your love for each other.

To become more intimate with your partner, try these three simple and effective tips:

Qinjia Support

Discuss with your partner more about the difficulties you face outside of your two worlds. In this way, he/she can understand your current situation and support you behind the scenes. The reason why this method works is because if you know a person's challenges, you can better support them. In addition, discussing more topics beyond love is the key to gaining support and avoiding barriers.

Organize 'exchange dates'

The so-called "exchange date" refers to a carefully planned date between lovers based on the interests of the other party. Regular appointments like this (of course, both parties take turns preparing for each other) provide a good opportunity for both parties to actively collect each other's interests and hobbies. The party who receives a surprise always feels that their partner is considerate and sweet (even if he/she may miss out on some of these subtle differences), and this method is absolutely safe in increasing intimacy, which is also very interesting!

Using "indirect love expressing" sweet words

'I love you' is a iconic romantic language, but if you want to enhance intimacy with your partner, it's better to use more expressions besides' I love you 'to describe your emotions towards your partner. Even if 'I love you' has endless magic when first spoken, over time, it will 'lose its charm'. Try using other phrases to showcase your positive emotions towards your partner, such as' I admire you ',' I appreciate you ', or' I am proud of you '. By combining these emotions with compliments, you will feel that your emotions towards your partner are not just about love.

Using these simple intimacy assessment tests and tips can help you no longer feel lonely in love once and for all!