Post Date December, 02 2023
Women like to use physical contact to express their kindness and intimacy, just as children like to snuggle up to adults and play coquettish. It belongs to a kind of animal instinct. Generally speaking, with the growth of age, people gradually mature in rationality, and the primitive habits of animals gradually degenerate and hide behind rationality. However, when women are shy or not good at expressing their feelings in words, they are used to using the most primitive and straightforward method of body contact as a means of conveying their feelings. In this sense, women and children are more animalistic than men.
From a psychological point of view, women attach more importance to feelings, and their thinking also focuses on feelings, and their senses are more sensitive than men, especially the sense of touch. Therefore, women are more accustomed to using tactile feeling to replace language expression. When dating your girlfriend, you should not only listen to her with your ears, but also watch her with your eyes. Only in this way can we have a more accurate insight into the true intention of her heart.
Body linguistics experts have found that everyone has a psychological defense space. Once other people invade, they will cause him or her to be nervous, alert and resistant. The stranger people are, the farther away they are from each other, the greater the distance between their bodies. On the contrary, the psychological defense space distance will gradually narrow. For example, between normal couples, the relationship between parents and children is the most intimate, so the psychological distance between them can be reduced to zero, that is, close physical contact. Therefore, if she likes to hold your hand or touch your body when walking with her partner, it means that the psychological distance between her and you has been greatly shortened, and she doesn't care if you invade her sphere of influence.
Some men don't understand the way women express intimacy. When their girlfriend's body is close to him, they will be elated and mistakenly think that she has a physical desire for herself, and the result may be very disappointing. When a woman touches a man's body, it is not only physical contact, but also spiritual and psychological closeness. She may just show her good feeling and closeness to you. That's all. Don't fantasize.
Similarly, once a woman has accepted the intimate relationship with a man psychologically, she will desire the other party to show some intimate behaviors, such as holding hands, holding shoulders, touching hair, snuggling, hugging, etc. Sometimes this is just a simple emotional desire, not a sensual requirement. A woman's care and obsession with these small actions actually proves that she cares about her lover. Remember, she will be very careful to control the proportion of physical contact. In this regard, some women are very principled. When she leans against you, she will feel trust, reliability, security and warmth. She needs this feeling to be more important and more satisfied than "sex".
Sometimes, a small action can open a woman's heart.
