Post Date December, 03 2023
After three generations of marriage, you and your beloved husband have finally entered the marriage palace. But life just likes to test people. In addition to dealing with marriage, we also have to deal with family relations. Many people don't know why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, and finally become a woman's dilemma. What should we do?
·The way of treating people with respect·
Some people feel that they can't afford to hide, so they stay away from their mother-in-law, fan the flames in front of their husband, and finally stop living with their mother-in-law. They think this is OK, but they never thought that their mother-in-law has a big opinion on you. Separation may reduce the friction between you and your mother-in-law, but it is also easy to make your mother-in-law have an opinion on you. If you don't want to live with her, you may dislike her. But in fact, you just don't want to cause trouble. If you misunderstand you, the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be bad. It is better to keep a close distance than stay away. Although she is not your biological mother, you should treat her as your biological mother when you marry your husband. Take the initiative to approach your mother-in-law. Don't take the way of avoiding and staying away from her. In fact, living with your mother-in-law means you have an extra helper. She may also be able to give you some help in life! Communicate with her more and care about her more. You will find it very pleasant to get along with your mother-in-law. For example, two women cook a meal for the man you love together. What a warm family it seems!
·There are different ideas between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law·
Everyone has their own ideas, especially now that the society is changing with each passing day. The older generation can't keep up with the pace of our young people, and their ideas naturally fall behind a lot. In our view, mother-in-law's ideas may be traditional or conservative. In this way, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law are more likely to have conflicts because of a sentence that is out of tune (refer to the influence of feudal ideology on the relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law). In the long run, the relationship will naturally become rigid. In fact, young people should also understand the elderly. Don't be angry and complain about your mother-in-law's bad behavior. You can patiently cultivate your mother-in-law with modern ideas and slowly make her accept the development of the new era. She will naturally understand you.
·The relationship between husband and wife will affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law·
In addition to your father-in-law, your husband is the favorite man in her mother-in-law's life. She trusted you to take care of him, but you failed her. She naturally has no good feelings for you. If you always make a mess in your family, you will argue with your husband as soon as he comes back. Such a rigid marriage will hurt your mother-in-law's heart when she sees it. She really loves that her son is not happy with you. Don't always blame your mother-in-law for helping her son bully you, or even mistakenly think that it is your mother-in-law who instigates your husband to deal with you. In fact, it is your own failure to handle the relationship between husband and wife, so that your mother-in-law doesn't trust you and has a bad view of you. If you are kind to your husband and filial to her, how can she pick the bone in the egg? You may not understand the suffering of those who are not in good relationship with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!
When love is kept by marriage, what you want to manage is no longer a simple relationship between two people, but a family network. A good wife and a good wife can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like a fish in water, because the relationship between her and mother-in-law is as close as a teacher and a friend.
