Post Date December, 03 2023
Many women don't quite understand the psychology of many men who like to cheat but don't want to divorce. "We have all committed adultery, why are we still holding onto the original?"? This will reveal the true psychology of men who cheat and don't divorce.
Boredom with marriage
Marriage has made him tired, and an extramarital affair has made him fresh and comfortable. Divorce has given junior three the upper hand, and repeated mundane days and repeated marriages have begun. When will this be the end? Men have come to understand that no matter who they marry, their married lives are almost the same. Regardless of whether you are in the midst of spring and snow, falling fish, falling geese, and falling water, you were a cinnabar mole in my heart when I wasn't married. It only takes a minute for you to become mosquito blood when you get married. Why bother taking another trip in this case?
Men hold a negative attitude towards divorce
Because men value the integrity of the form of "family" more than the quality of their relationship. In addition, they have one of the biggest reasons, that is, divorce will bring great harm to them.
The disadvantages of divorce can be divided into four categories: First, divorce can lose social credibility. Although the divorce rate is increasing year by year, compared to the past, it has become a common occurrence. But in today's male centered society, divorce is still seen as a huge stain on men; In so-called first-class enterprises and bureaucratic hierarchies, it can significantly affect individual prosperity. "In modern society, there are some strange sayings widely circulated:" Men who cannot manage their families well are unable to manage companies "," Men who cannot control even a woman cannot perform their work well ", and so on.".
Suffering from daily chores
After marriage, all household chores are taken care of by the wife. However, once the wife leaves, a man's life will be in trouble. Before, there was very little talk between the two people, but at least they were able to wear clean clothes to work every morning. What about washing clothes without a wife? Who will do the sanitation? If she leaves her child and goes away, the man is even more doomed... and so on. There is indeed a sense of shame in thinking this way, but from a very realistic perspective, men do not want to divorce.
Economic burden
The current law absolutely protects wives. In the event of a divorce, a husband must bear a certain financial burden. Although ordinary wage earners do not have to pay too much maintenance to their wives, they are not in the minority in terms of child rearing expenses. If they have housing, it is also awarded to the woman in most cases. So life for men after divorce is quite difficult. In short, in terms of alimony, it is not only a matter of "women being superior to men", but also a matter of fact that men bear an extremely heavy burden. Even if the divorce is due to the wife's disobedience, the husband still has to pay alimony; On the contrary, if a divorce occurs due to a husband's deviant behavior, the wife pays very little support to the husband, and the husband has to bear a huge burden of expenses.
Concerned that children will be taken away by their wives during divorce, even through litigation, the custody of children is mostly awarded to their wives. "The more men like and love their children, the less willing they are to be separated from them, so husbands strive to avoid divorce.".
