I don't know why I always have some unease and suspicion towards my husband. Although he hasn't done anything wrong to me, he always verifies the truth of what he says for inexplicable unease, which makes me very tired. However, I still have this kind of mentality. I also asked my sisters. They also feel that they have certain types of concerns and doubts. I really don't understand, is it because women are inherently suspicious, or are men inherently suspicious?
Weiqing Marriage Counselor:
Most of women's emotional problems stem from emotional disorders.
Women invest many times more energy into relationships than men because their brain volume for handling relationships is at least twice that of men. So, women are particularly sensitive, attentive, and value everything related to emotions, and their demands are correspondingly high. They put in strong energy and feelings for emotions. So it is not an exaggeration to say that a woman's life is spent on emotions.
Women have a great need for love and being loved, which directly affects their emotional balance. Women are prone to sensitivity and suspicion towards love because they need to confirm the existence of love through words and actions. They must often see and hear about love in order to be certain that they are living in love.
Unfortunately, men are not good at words and actions, and they even live in a world where words and actions are broken. Many times, they think that having said something is enough, and even think that having said it is already done. Sometimes, they mistakenly remember and think that they have actually done it, resulting in inconsistent words and actions. They cannot fulfill what they have said, even if it is just a small matter, they always cannot fulfill it, This makes women even more suspicious of men's sincerity and importance towards them.
No matter who is right or wrong, who should care more about whom and adapt to whom. It seems too difficult for men to adapt to women's demands for love. It's better to go further and improve their emotional intelligence. Women, in terms of emotions, hope to balance themselves and not be overly interfered with to affect other performances. They should learn to distance themselves a bit and not rely on words or words to judge whether they are in love or loved. Women should shift their energy, live in the present, and do tangible things, rather than spending energy on emotional right or wrong.
Men need to learn how to love, while women need to learn beyond love. In this way, sexual interaction can be expected to be more harmonious and balanced.
If women can concentrate more on dealing with other things, they will gradually realize that love and life can be more balanced, and their physical and mental health will be much smoother. This is also a compulsory course for self-management, making themselves happier, independent, and calm, without being dragged by emotions for a lifetime and losing themselves.