Post Date December, 02 2023
Why did he lose patience with me after being together? Is it because you don't cherish it? How did he become stingy? It was clear that when he chased me before, flowers and gifts were expensive! He doesn't seem to like dating me so much. Is there no fresh feeling, or is there other romantic partners, so he becomes cold? These girls' complaints are not strange at all. Why do men change after dating or marrying us? In fact, I think most of the changes are normal, and even some are justifiable. I share my observation with you. Men think differently from you.
1、 To achieve the goal, it is inevitable to relax:
As far as biology is concerned, almost every kind of creature will do all it can when courting. It is very beautiful, very hard, and very beautiful! The relaxation after reaching the goal is just right. Think about it. How much time do you spend dressing up when you go out on a date now? Is it more often than in the past ambiguous or passionate love? On the positive side, it actually means that we have become more comfortable around each other, so there is no need to pretend. Of course, the person who shows his true face may not be as beautiful as you originally imagined, but may be closer to his essence.
2、 Love depends on impulse and get along with pragmatism:
You may complain that after being with a man, he becomes unromantic. In the past, we had to eat big meals at Christmas, but now it has become a roadside stall in the night market. Flowers and gifts are indispensable for the birthday before marriage. After marriage, set a budget gift and find it yourself. Love needs a little impulse, and this impulse sometimes needs external stimulation, romantic dating situation and sweet talk, etc. Not being so romantic doesn't mean that he doesn't love you as much as he used to, but that he pays more attention to the sense of life and the future wallet of the two people than those pink bubbles.
3、 Loving interests and maintaining vitality:
You don't understand that he would like to go shopping with you during the holidays, but now he would rather stay on the sofa and play games. He will annoy you when you are around when watching the ball game. He may also love to play with cars or collect model toys, which you can't participate in. To be honest, these entertainment activities are not eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. You have no reason to ban him. What you really feel unhappy about is that he ignores you. What a woman wants is a sense of existence that is "my most important" in a man's heart, but for a man, he needs these interests to maintain vitality.
4、 It is natural to like the girls and beauties:
It is clear that he has you, but he will steal at other girls when walking on the road. He will still have an overreaction when he sees the girl! This is just a man's nature. Just like you watch Korean dramas and you will fantasize about Oba falling in love with you, and you will scream when you meet Takeshi Kaneshiro, it is their nature for men to be attracted by women. Some men are fond of losing their sister and talking, and take advantage of others verbally. As long as you are not actually cheating, you can also choose to open one eye and close one eye. The more jealous and caring you are, the more vulnerable you are in love. Don't ask him to have only you in his eyes, just make sure he has only you in his heart!
5、 Most men are not good listeners:
Most men are not good listeners. You think he has become impatient. In fact, he is not good at listening at all. But when pursuing you, he must pretend to be very interested in listening! When women express themselves, they are used to putting in the causes and consequences, and have feelings, but men often want to focus on the key words and key points. You think he is absent-minded, and the OS in his mind may be "when are you going to get to the point?". Moreover, men are not born to be multitasking like women. For example, when he focuses on watching NBA championship games, his ear hole may be reduced to the sound of TV, so you should seize the opportunity to communicate with him.
Love is easy and difficult to get along with. Instead of complaining about why men become different from before and trying to optimize him, change him and control him, it's better to find a way to get along with each other after he shows his true face!
