According to the report on the Japanese Men-joy website on June 5, the beloved husband is actually a playboy... Why on earth? If you are not married, please think about it from the perspective of lovers. Why is the person you are dealing with is a flirt? An American psychological inquiry expert conducted a survey on cheating with 200 married men.
1. 48% of men cheat mainly because of "mood problems"
Although it is said that "men's flirtatiousness is mainly due to physiological reasons and has nothing to do with their mood", only 8% of men fall into flirtatiousness due to sexual "desire dissatisfaction" according to this survey. In addition, nearly half of the 48% of respondents said that the main reason for the flower heart was "unsatisfied mood".
There are not a few men who are dissatisfied with their wives. "I want my wife to express further gratitude to me, and I want her to praise my efforts". But compared with women, men are not good at expressing feelings. And they also have a strong side. The negative emotions accumulated unconsciously will cause them to spend time.
In order to prevent them from cheating, it is necessary to say "thank you" and "you are really good" to them from time to time. Perhaps meeting the self-esteem of men is the most important thing.
2. 40% of the men who meet the cheating object in the "workplace"
The statement that "the person who started the relationship with the cheating object in the workplace" has a very deep relationship with the previous statement that "men's mood problems are easy to cause cheating". This is because married men who are not taken seriously at home are often seen as "respectable bosses" by other women in the workplace.
There is not enough respect from the wife, but women in the workplace can get their smiling faces and praise of "You are really worthy of trust!". In this case, the risk of crossing the limit is also great.
3. In fact, only 12% of people who think that the cheating object is better than their wife
That is to say, men do not choose their lovers by their looks. Once again, I want to say that in order to obtain spiritual satisfaction from women other than their wives, men first require sexual behavior, which is the basic process of cheating.
From the results of this survey, we can draw a surprising conclusion that "men are not in love for physical reasons, but for spiritual satisfaction". Of course, sex is also one of the important reasons why men cheat. Although sex is also indispensable to prevent the occurrence of incest, it is more important than physical communication or spiritual communication.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)