Some people think that as long as they love each other, they can be together, and marriage is only a form, so they have cohabitation. However, couples who live together will also have two outcomes, either get married or break up. They can't live together for a lifetime. If women have the idea of marriage, they must be careful with cohabitation, because some cohabiting couples are doomed to break up.
1. Cohabitation without a fixed marriage date
Among the couples who broke up, women always felt that the first cohabitation was not very smooth. Couples who do not have a clear cohabitation time and goal will not be able to find a suitable marriage time. Therefore, it is better to specify the "target time for marriage" at the beginning of cohabitation.
2. Live a normal life like an old man and wife
Without tourism and other entertainment plans, he has been living a "normal life". A woman said, "It's like we are old wives.". There is no exciting moment for people to live a constant life every day. At least Dim sum should be given on the anniversary of two people, so that we can seize the opportunity to get married.
3. Don't talk about the future
"You can't talk about specific topics like how old you want children.". Many couples do not discuss the planning after marriage, and the conversation between them cannot go smoothly. Whenever you think about it in reverse, you will find the best time to build the family of your dreams.
4. Think that "as long as you are happy, you can not marry"
Another woman said, "I can't see that the other party wants to marry". Some people don't understand the importance of marriage. After that, I realized that "the other party wants to get married" is no longer helpful. In order to avoid this situation, how about seriously discussing the topic about the future with the other party.
5. Feeling uneasy about the financial situation after marriage
A woman said, "My boyfriend often changes jobs, and my income is not high". Even if two people have love, if they don't have money, they can't get married. Setting the goal of "saving enough money for the wedding within two years" in advance will be very effective for the income accumulation.
6. Hate or fear each other's kinship
A woman said, "My boyfriend seems to be the eldest son of my family, and I don't know much about the customs in the countryside. I feel a lot uneasy...". There are many people who are afraid that after marriage, relatives will increase and restrictions will also increase. Having said that, it is better to make a decisive decision because we have to live together for a long time in unfamiliar places.
7. Living together without formal visits to both parents
Women said, "We must take marriage seriously". Couples who have not formally introduced their families can only live together for a long time without purpose. Once the time is free, there will be "why doesn't that guy come home to say hello" and other thoughts that the other party is not good for his family, and will gradually move away from the road of marriage.
Single cohabitation takes some risks, so both men and women should consider carefully before deciding whether to cohabit. In addition, when single cohabitation, we must pay attention to contraception. Durex ultra-thin condoms make us closer to each other!