Anger often paralyzes people's normal thinking, causing people to do things that are extreme or even beyond their minds, especially in the face of major changes, such as setbacks in marriage, especially extramarital love, which can easily make people lose their minds. It is true that no one can be calm when encountering extramarital love. Women are more likely to be angry and angry, but the more so, the worse things will be. So, what should we do?
Don't be angry when detecting extramarital love
From a psychological point of view, people's emotions are difficult to control. Women, especially. When you find out his extramarital love, you can make a big row in anger, but you should also know that such a row is equal to "robbing" the face of a man. A man who has lost face doesn't care about greater harm. Therefore, when marriage is in crisis, what women should do is to try to instill a sense of responsibility in men and push them into the good crowd. You should constantly help him remember his love and his efforts. In the process of helping him establish a great image, slowly pull him back to the track of marriage. Maybe you are really angry, but women, don't be emotional slaves.
Keep fresh and fresh in marriage
Many women will fall into a misunderstanding after marriage. They feel that marriage is like life insurance. As long as they keep it well, there will be no problem. But no man will die in a stale wife who has remained unchanged for decades. After marriage, both husband and wife need to keep fresh, ranging from adjusting their life plans to changing their hair styles and clothes. Women should always be fickle. Only by letting the other party see your "changes" often can they ensure their long-term "unchanged". Human nature likes the new and hates the old. It is necessary to give stimulation frequently to live out new ideas. Otherwise, extramarital love will take advantage of the situation.
Don't try hard in the early warning period of extramarital love
When there are conflicts, crises and extramarital affairs in marriage, don't try hard first. Men are always more stubborn than women in dealing with contradictions. This is the willfulness of men and children. Don't say "no" at the first time when you meet with differences. We should freeze the problem that caused the difference for the time being, and consciously guide him to do some things that the husband and wife can reach a happy consensus. When these things are done, the tacit understanding and confidence of the husband and wife will be improved by leaps and bounds. At this time, it will be easier to solve the differences if we take out the problems that have differences before.