What does the wife think about her husband's extramarital love?
"If my wife is away, I will be extremely depressed and indignant, which is the most male thing (I know that women also have it, and they will also be sad when they find out about extramarital affairs).".
In my experience of having an affair with 83 women, I have had several experiences where I was extremely jealous. Several times I have discovered lovers and other men, and at that time they were still my women, and each time it was impossible. This has changed my belief that I am the greatest man in bed ever. Once, I asked her to come back (we've been dating for 5 years), and we still maintained a close relationship until her death 12 years later.
"Extramarital emotions, but I have never forgotten, are a kind of unforgettable pain."
"My saddest part is her affair. Now that I have recovered, there are only some sad emotions left. I don't want to know if she will still meet that person or have a tryst with any other man. We had a sad summer that year, and I think we are all glad that this matter has passed now, and we have survived."
"If she sleeps with someone else, I'll be jealous to death, and I'll be angry. I'll snub her, and I don't want any explanation. I'll cut her neck, and I won't regret it at all, except for being angry that I actually fell in love with such a castrated man - any woman who wants to make a man jealous is a crazy little bastard, and she can get out."
"My wife has had several affairs, and I haven't had one. Afterwards, she told me one by one that I was really scared, more because of our dismal sexual life and a hundredfold deepening of our feelings. Her affair has no significant impact on the marriage, and I separated from her for other reasons."
"My first wife had a serious extramarital affair about a year and a half after we were married, which was a major reason for our divorce. I didn't want to be jealous, but I was still jealous. I felt overwhelmed, but before other issues arose, she continued to sleep with me and with him. I told her about my doubts, and in fact, I was convinced, and she finally admitted it."
Some men don't care because they already treat their wives very much:
"I, the real me, have sex outside of marriage. My wife knows, and she rarely does. I don't care if she has an affair, and I really don't care at all about her. The impact of an affair on me is confusion and intense inner struggle - I'm really completely trapped. Now that children know about us, they don't necessarily agree, but they want to understand why I have a lover. I'm very honest with them, sometimes it's not easy, but I Yes, and so far it seems to be doing well. "I'm happy to be single again."
"I have been married for 16 years and have found that marriage can stifle life, including sex. My wife and a young colleague have a brief relationship. She didn't know I knew, and was greatly impressed when she found out I knew. I wouldn't let this bother me, and I'm really glad someone gave her some love because I'm sure I don't love her."
However, some men accept:
"Seven years of marriage. I really love married life, and marriage is the pillar of my life. Without my wife, my life would not have made much progress - both emotionally and emotionally. I had an extramarital affair, and I told my wife that she was a little bit, but she accepted it generously. Now, my wife and one of our friends have maintained a sexual relationship for two years. My wife is increasingly attracted to him, and I encourage them to stay together. Believe it or not "You, she seduced him, and he absolutely dared not take a step further.". For the past two years, I worked as a volunteer in the community two nights a week, and she spent the night in his house. I'm not bothered at all. In fact, knowing that she's working with other men makes me expand and enhance my appreciation for her sexuality.
Throughout the process, there was no need to worry that my wife would leave me. "She loves that man, but the way she loves me is different. She can live with me, but she can't live with him.". I never worried that this would cast a shadow over our relationship. My wife and I know each other very well. "I have never used marriage to pursue extramarital affairs, I just haven't seen anyone yet.". "What should happen will happen, I am willing to."