Post Date December, 03 2023
What do you want to say after breaking up? Many times, it's not that you don't know how to say it, but that you can't save face and make the other party think you are out of line. What do you want to say after breaking up? I think we should start from two aspects:
1、 How to keep the combination of face? 2、 How to break through from the reasons for breaking up.
Here are seven ways to tell you what to say after breaking up.
1. Play silly
Couples often say that there are many people who break up. If you feel regretful after saying that, you can completely follow the example of other couples who often break up and close in front of an angry remark. If you don't take it seriously, if the other party doesn't break up with an iron heart, the other party will not hold on for long.
2. Keep ambiguous
Couples who break up don't have to say it out. It is most appropriate to naturally transition to the intimacy between normal couples. It doesn't matter whether you say it or not. What matters is that there is ambiguity between lovers in your relationship.
3. Keep in touch and keep the window of attention
Chat tools such as WeChat and QQ should not be blackmailed after breaking up, and the mobile phone number should not be deleted (you will not forget if deleted), so that you can understand the other person's life after breaking up. Circle a compliment to the other party's friends, and give comfort to the other party's QQ mood. In this way, the other party can still feel that you still care about him. When you think of him, write about your sweet time before you write about it. Only words that you can understand. When the other party wants to reunite one day, they will reunite with each other with tacit understanding and less estrangement.
4. Improve yourself and become a better person
When you break up, you must have some bad habits or bad temper. Let's ignore each other's shortcomings first, and correct and optimize your own shortcomings first. To optimize yourself, you can start with external image, internal cultivation and knowledge. The belly is full of poetry and books. Reading is a good thing. It is excellent to enrich and expand knowledge in the heart. When there are achievements, let the other party know your life situation through your way (such as WeChat or QQ). He will feel that you are still a good person, and he will naturally increase his favor for you again, paving the way for saving love.
5. Take the initiative appropriately and directly ask for compound
No matter what channel you use, when you know that the other person has not yet found another person, you can influence the other person's heart by re-increasing favorable feelings. However, once you find that the other party may have other options, you should learn to take the initiative. After the foreshadowing of the previous four stages of the compound, he actively said that the compound had not lost face any more. On the nearest anniversary, suddenly bring your favorite gift to the other party, regardless of whether the other party responds or not, and say your intention to reunite.
6. Pursue each other again
If the breakup is said by the other party, you may have to pay more to impress the other party. All the ways to save love are inseparable from secondary attraction. In the past, it just proves that you have known each other before. What you need to grasp is now. If you broke up on your own initiative, you may feel a lot easier before you get back together, but you may have to experience again what you can't stand. So, while you have become the other party's favorite, you should also guide the other party to become the state you like (don't blame, need to overcome hardness with softness). Long-term love must be easy for two people to get along with each other and grow wonderful.
7. Don't break up easily
You can basically get back together through the first seven moves, but we still need to learn to protect the lost love. Philosophy tells us that contradictions are universal, which restrict and promote each other. It is very common for couples to have conflicts, and feelings are rising in run-in. No matter how angry you are, don't talk about breaking up any more. It hurts the person you really love too much, and the person who doesn't really love you will leave as soon as you like. Never say goodbye until the day when you want to break up 100%.
