If you want to maintain a good and intimate relationship with a man, you need to know, what do men need? Now let me talk about what men most want from women?
1、 Be worshipped and admired.
Why do men like silly girls and old cows eating tender grass? Why don't you like strong women and overly intelligent girls? This is because women need to be worshipped to be happy, while men need to be worshipped to be happy. The former can give them admiration and admiration, while the latter often does not. This does not mean that they do not like strong women or smart women.
2、 Be affirmed, recognized, praised.
Men need to be held, women need to be coaxed. Zhang Xiaoxian once said, "The three most favorite gifts for men are: a high hat. From time to time, he was given one high hat after another, praising and admiring him; An admiring gaze. Even if he does something stupid, you still give him that kind of look; The comfort of life. Let him know that you will share the joys and sorrows with him, and you are his spiritual comfort. "If a woman wants your man to become successful, she should give them more affirmation and praise. If a woman can often say to her husband, 'You're great,' then she will be willing to do everything for you, doing everything for you.
3、 Understand and trust.
Men do not shed tears lightly. No matter how much suffering and pain they experience outside, they always appear as "light hearted". This is because men and women are different. Women who show fragility are cute, while men are shameful. In addition, as men tend to save face, they prefer to swallow tears and pretend to be happy. But this does not mean that they are stronger than women. This requires the women around him to have sufficient wisdom, give them understanding and trust, which is more than giving them honey to make them feel sweet and warm, and to never give up on you.
4、 Be respected.
According to a survey, 50% of marriages end in failure due to neglecting the natural needs of both parties - men naturally need respect, and women naturally need love. If this is ignored, both spouses will fall into a "crazy circle" of mutual complaints, suspicions, accusations, and arguments; Once you understand and meet the natural needs of the other party, you can read their encoded information and enter the "dynamic circle" of love and respect for the husband and wife.
In a letter from a Jewish mother to her daughter before marriage, she said: Dear daughter, if you serve your husband like a king, you will become a queen. If you only treat your husband as a servant who earns money, you will become a maid. Disdain your husband, he will use violence to discipline you. When your husband's relatives and friends visit, they should receive them with the most pleasant expressions and the greatest sincerity. Your husband will treat you as the most precious gem. When respecting your husband first, there will be multiple crowns of honor on your head.
5、 Needed.
Why don't men like women who are too powerful? Because these women are too independent, they seem to be unwanted, and men cannot find a sense of existence, value, or achievement in them. Men like the feeling that women are taken care of by themselves. Of course, women should not rely too much, otherwise they will feel comfortable returning.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)