Because of love, tormenting each other unconsciously in the process of harm, making it difficult for the parties involved to extricate themselves. Looking back, did they really love each other wrong? I can't believe it, I put all my heart into loving each other, I can do without family, I can make changes for each other, but in the end, I love each other so badly.
In marriage counseling, I often come into contact with the topic of love. Regarding what love is and what kind of love is suitable for me, I believe that everyone has their own perspective, and no one's inner love will be the same as others. Because of my own liking, because of my attachment to the person I love, I forget myself and lose myself in love.
Because I deeply love each other, even if he is 16 years older than me, love makes me love without complaint or regret. The two of them enjoy happiness and happiness together, and I am also immersed in the care and care of each other, making me feel loved and loved as never before. The two often talk about getting married together and planning their life after marriage. During the three years of contact with each other, I have always felt that I am the happiest and happiest woman in the world, and I often hear many stories of being deceived by someone who falls in love with me. I also see others getting divorced and entangled due to marital disharmony. I often act as a mediator for friends and colleagues, and many of my friends envy me, making me very satisfied and cherishing this hard-earned relationship. They often talk about this topic together, Make yourself believe in your choices even more, even if parents and friends have opinions, because each other is sincere, it is also because you really enjoy and love each other, and gradually accept this love.
Maybe it's fate, maybe it's just a joke. Having a house and a car, they have a great job, and they have appeared as husband and wife in many occasions. They also take care of themselves and are considerate of themselves, but what makes them the most unhappy is that they often neglect themselves due to social and work reasons. Sometimes they can't accompany themselves for a long time, and they can understand each other. They know that their company has many things to do, He takes care of everything and tries his best to help and understand. I am very satisfied and try to be as tolerant as possible to be a happy little woman. While enjoying marriage, I also enjoy a hard-earned relationship, especially after the wedding. Although not many people attended, I was moved because I no longer have to explain to others' questions and strange eyes, and can enjoy this happiness well. However, I don't know why, there is always a sense of unease in my heart, I am afraid that he will one day abandon himself, and I am afraid that he will leave me. Whenever I say this, I will always make myself happy. I will confidently say no, love myself well, take care of myself, give myself a warm and comfortable home, and have my own children.
Unexpectedly, during an argument between the two over emotional issues, the other party accidentally revealed a sentence that surprised themselves. The other party actually got married very early, had children of similar age to themselves, but had a strained relationship with their wife. They only found sustenance in themselves and genuinely liked themselves. They wanted to take good care of themselves, were reluctant to part with themselves, and were afraid of losing themselves, so they kept hiding and satisfying themselves, It can be said that apart from their true love, the two of them are happier and happier than any other couple. However, this ending is unbearable for themselves. With a relationship of 3-4, they actually don't know anything. They have always been someone else's mistress, and their love is so vague that they feel heartbroken and helpless. In the most painful days of their lives, they have always been with themselves, providing some comfort and hearing many helplessness and entanglements from each other, There is also care and understanding for oneself, allowing oneself to gradually accept the current choices. Although still rejecting, what changes can one make.
I haven't been clear about being someone else's mistress for many years. My heavy love, the so-called true love, is really hurting. Who has hurt me, who is joking with me, complaining and blaming each other, and whether it is worth it to calm down and reflect on. For so many years, I have been cherishing the love, how does it feel to have it, and how to take care of and take care of myself, What kind of life is what one needs the most, and it really requires the parties involved to reorganize and understand themselves, rather than struggling to become mistresses. Life needs to continue, how to let oneself go, how to manage one's own family and happiness, not what others are saying, but to put one's heart into order. What is love, what kind of love one needs, and what kind of love one can accept, it is worth carefully choosing and allowing oneself to make a mistake once, After making a clear choice, being able to have true love that belongs to oneself, learning to protect oneself, and loving oneself well is the only way, rather than making fun of oneself just because of love.