Post Date December, 03 2023
The sexual life in marriage tends to be flat, which can be said to be the normal state of human behavior. Faced with this trend, many couples will take some corresponding actions to increase the interest of sex. Experts believe that if "prosaicism" means the disharmony of sexual life within marriage, it is an abnormal qualitative change; At this time, if the husband and wife can not face the problem calmly, communicate and adjust with each other, the phenomenon of dilution may become a warning sign of marriage change.
The sexual life in marriage is not harmonious. If it is caused by "blandness", try to cultivate the taste of marital life. Learn the art of making love through the old, such as changing into a sexy nightgown, occasionally staying out for the night or trying a farewell. Modern people have their own ways to 'save' the dull sex life.
However, do you have the right to refuse the party who is not worried about the "flat" sex life, but can't stand the "frequent" sex? The husband and wife have different needs for the frequency of sex, which can't be blamed for blaming the spouse. If the wife has the right to refuse sex, the husband also has the right to "request".
The natural quantitative curve of sexual life within marriage shows a gradual decline. The average number of times per week decreased from four times per week in the twenties and thirties to two times per week in the fifties and sixties. The qualitative change of marital sexual life can be divided into the following three items:
1. Men enjoy orgasm more actively, earlier and faster; Women experience orgasm later, many wait until they are in their 30s, and their sexual desire is often stronger than their husbands.
2. In modern society, with the weakening of various traditional taboos, more and more couples are trying to change their positions and techniques of making love, such as women and men.
3. Incoordination of sexual life. The husband and wife have inconsistent requirements for the frequency of sex and sexual dysfunction, which may lead to the outcome of infidelity and divorce.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
