Post Date December, 03 2023
Both spouses may have significant opinions and disagreements on lifestyle customs, elderly care issues, and the issue of who to visit during the Chinese New Year holiday. If communication between the two parties is not smooth, it is very likely to bring crisis to the marriage. These are some characteristics of long-distance marriage.
When couples in different places face various situations, both sides of the couple will inevitably become angry, each saying their own thing and not giving in to each other, and the final result will also be unimaginable.
Therefore, for the common conflicts in long-distance marriages, we can try the following ways to improve them.
Enhance marital emotions
Improving the emotional environment in marriage ultimately requires a long-distance marriage. Due to the environmental factors of separation between the two parties, there is inevitably a high demand for emotional harmony between the couple. If there is no emotional harmony between couples, they will definitely be unable to negotiate and thus ignore each other for a long time. Furthermore, don't think that being an old husband or wife means there's no need to talk about emotions. The older the couple is, the more important it is to maintain emotions. The higher the emotional harmony between spouses, the more harmonious their lives will be.
Learn to empathize and think
If you take a detour without following the other party's instructions, both parties will definitely fire. If you think from a different perspective, consider from the other person's perspective, and apologize in a timely manner, you will avoid this situation from happening. Another level of issue is when it comes to the issue of both parents. If both parents can be treated like their own biological parents, it will definitely avoid marital disputes. On the issue of who to return to during the Chinese New Year, it can be agreed that we will visit our mother-in-law's house this year and our mother's house next year. By using love and understanding to handle things, couples will definitely not argue anymore. Once a couple quarrels, it is certain that both parties are at fault. Finding reasons from oneself and treating each other with respect will inevitably promote harmony between the couple.
Improve communication efficiency
If there is no harmonious communication between husband and wife, they will definitely not understand and compromise with each other. Therefore, couples will definitely solve problems through hands-on methods. As the enemy of their emotions, hands-on behavior can lead to domestic violence. At this point, the woman should attach great importance to it and must consider why this is the case. Both parties need to have a great marriage and work together to improve.
Respect each other's differences
There are objective differences in personality and cognition between couples. Only by respecting these differences can effective communication and peaceful coexistence be achieved. Both men and women should understand their psychological needs, achieve mutual understanding, understanding, and respect.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
