12 cm height difference
This is the best height difference between men and women. Whether holding hands, hugging or kissing, it is the most harmonious difference. Boys are too short, girls will feel dull, too high and difficult to reach.
Comments: Most girls have a strong desire to be protected, and hope that their male partners are higher than themselves, so they have a sense of security. In fact, men are generally taller than women, but if they are more than 10 cm higher, the visual effect is obvious, and the petiteness of girls and the strength of boys can be shown. This gap can make the gender roles of both sides more distinct, that is, men are more like men and women are more like women. Of course, too high is not practical. The figure of 12 cm is only an ideal value representing the height difference between many couples, and represents the desire of most women to be cared for.
Age difference of 3 years
Girls mature earlier than boys. The two people should live in peace and have similar psychological age. When girls are still in college, boys have started to work; By the time the girl graduates, the man has been quite stable and it is natural to start a family.
Comments: Girls are two or three years earlier than boys in intelligence and emotional development. The gap between two and three years of age basically ensures the match between men and women in psychological maturity. But it is not necessarily true. In adolescence, girls' psychological development is earlier than boys', but by the age of 20 or 30, boys and girls' psychological age is basically equal. Boys are older than girls, which can help girls find reasons to rely on boys, and also help boys develop a sense of responsibility to love girls.
Keep a bowl of soup away from your parents
Today's young couples do not want to live with their elders, but their parents should take care of occasionally. The distance should be that the children can cook a bowl of soup and drink it while it is hot when sending it to their parents.
Comments: Today's young people are more self-conscious and pay more attention to the quality of life. They are not willing to hurt themselves and also take responsibility. However, in the context of high real housing prices, it is difficult to choose accommodation at will. The young couple and their parents are both relatively independent and can meet at any time, which seems to be a difficult thing. But it is worth affirming that we have this intelligence and filial piety.