Post Date December, 03 2023
Girls in love are often unsure of their boyfriends' love affairs, fearing that "one slip can lead to eternal hatred.". Here, psychologists teach you a few ways to determine your boyfriend's psychological hazards. If your boyfriend has any of the following courtship psychology, there is a hidden danger in his love.
1、 Absolute self psychology.
This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition. He asked his girlfriend to constantly reflect his "advantages" and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or there is a possibility that they may not be met, he will become angry and even feel that you have failed him.
2、 Logical error association.
This type of man usually exhibits association and suspicion. Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of his lover. Once a girlfriend has done something he cannot understand or is unhappy with, he will "fantasize" and mechanically find evidence that you are not with him.
3、 Non emotional transference into the mind.
This kind of man does not have empathy when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, and does not place himself in the evaluation and understanding position. Especially when a girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs emotional empathy to treat her, they withdraw or ignore her. He can only share joy with you, not trouble with you.
4、 Errors contrast psychology.
This type of man often compares his strengths with those of his girlfriend, or compares his girlfriend's weaknesses with those of others. This kind of man can quickly discover and appreciate your strengths when he starts dating you, and your relationship will also heat up in a straight line. "But if he discovers that your strengths are so inconspicuous, he will become indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you unpredictable and even becomes a temptation, making you feel more mysterious.".
5、 Adapt to excitement.
This type of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense of sensitivity, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he particularly likes trendy women. Pay attention to the appearance and image of your girlfriend, such as her appearance, hairstyle, and clothing, and be willing to invest in this area for her. However, once you cannot adapt to his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain constantly.
When you discover that your boyfriend has any of the above psychology, don't take it lightly. Of course, strictly speaking, any male will always have one or more of the above worries more or less. There's no need to panic, let alone "break up" as soon as you find out, so you'll never find the right partner. The standard for mastering this "degree" is that if you truly love him, you may as well openly discuss your concerns with him and let him realize the dangers of this hidden danger.
If you are new friends and your relationship is not yet deep, you can also talk to him to see what happens later. If you don't think it's necessary, break up the friendship. However, take either approach. One thing to grasp is whether your judgment on him is correct and comprehensive. Otherwise, taking things for granted and assuming oneself will bring you lifelong pain.
