Hold the hand of your son and grow old with him "- this is the most simple and eternal love oath of humanity. Two people walked hand in hand towards marriage with a beautiful longing for love. However, there are too many temptations along the path of marriage. As the husband has an affair while walking, what should the wife do correctly?
1、 Complaining is useless, heartbreaking hurts the lungs. Just be brave and be yourself
If you are unable to recover due to your husband's infidelity, it can only indicate that your person's life is too single. Actually, without him, you can still live. Just being with him, he created some problems that you need to bear without considering your feelings. So, at this moment, instead of getting angry, it's better to be positive and be yourself. From now on, don't think about living for this man, but live for yourself. Only by valuing oneself and strengthening oneself can one be looked up to. That's the reason why women are not inferior to men. Today you hurt me with an affair, tomorrow I will let you treat me with the same attitude as the queen. If you are truly powerful, you should shift your complaining heart and do everything well in the present.
2、 Change previous attitudes, prioritize tolerance, and cultivate a loving atmosphere
Since I married him, if I easily divorce because of his infidelity, it can only prove my weakness and the vulnerability of love. The saying 'Spring silkworms die before the silk is exhausted' is the love in ancient poetry. In ancient China, there was no word for love, but instead the term "love" was used: the so-called "one day, a hundred days of love for a couple"; So, in the family, it is important to cultivate a loving atmosphere between spouses. If you can cook with your heart, organize your room with your heart, take care of your children with your heart, treat your mother-in-law with your heart, and treat him well, I believe he will definitely feel it. In this comfortable situation, express your expectations for building a better family together to your husband. Make your husband feel that you are not easy and hardworking, and then turn around and admit your mistake.
3、 Marriage must withstand lies, deceit, and problems
The theme song "Dang" in the TV drama "Huan Zhu Ge Ge" has the lyrics "When there are no sharp edges on the mountains, when the river no longer flows, when time stops, when the sun and moon do not divide, and when all things in heaven and earth turn into nothingness, I still cannot break up with you, I cannot break up with you. Your gentleness is the greatest waiting for me in this life." This lyrics once became popular across the country, and the reason for this is because it praises great love. Marriage is not about loving him because he is perfect, it is about loving him and falling in love with his imperfections. Even if he did something wrong and broke your heart. Because you truly love him, you will forgive his mistakes. This is where marriage is nobler than love. Love can turn around and run away, while marriage emphasizes more on responsibility. Having the ability to solve problems is itself a form of courage.
Women half the sky. Those who have problems in the family, cannot find a solution, and cannot shoulder their responsibilities are still cowards. So, try to solve every problem that belongs to you in life with a brave attitude. Anyway, it's always good for you to keep a low profile. Because women are too strong, good times do not last long. The best way is to have a sense of propriety in what you do, to have your own opinions when things go wrong, and to be calm and unhurried, which is truly strong!