Post Date December, 03 2023
The marriage I long for is actually very simple: loyal love, and cherish it well. But she lingered in bed with other men again and again.
The first time my wife cheated happened when we were in love:
My wife refused my pursuit by not talking about objects during high school and college. But what I know is that she had four or five short love experiences during college. Until graduation from college, we met again, and I launched a fierce offensive again. This time, my wife agreed to become my girlfriend.
During that time, my wife and a certain love object in college were disconnected, and even ran to see the man without telling me. During that time, my wife also aborted for the man. At that time, I was very hurt and broke up with my wife.
Later, when the man married, his wife gave up completely and chased me in turn. Because I still loved her, we flashed off.
My wife's second derailment occurred when I went out to work:
My wife's betrayal before marriage has done me a lot of harm, which leads me to be paranoid after marriage, and there are more quarrels. At that time, when I went to a psychological institution, the psychologist told me that since I was married, I should not use my previous mistakes to punish myself. For this reason, I slowly relieved.
When my child was in kindergarten, I went to other places with my boss to do a project for half a year. When I returned, I caught my wife and male neighbor in bed. That time, I beat my wife and male neighbor. After that, I had a cold war with my wife for four or five months. I didn't try to forgive until my wife bowed her head and admitted her mistake.
This time, I went to a psychological institution again, and the counselor gave the consolation that the separation between the two places could easily lead to the derailment of the lonely party, or just itching. If you still love, you must forgive.
I admit that I love my wife more and more, so forgive me again.
The third time the wife cheated happened when she met a rich man:
After several years of stable life, the wife is now becoming more and more material. I think my career has developed well in recent years. I have a house, a car and no loan, but my wife still occasionally scolds me for being incompetent. To make matters worse, some time ago, she met a big boss at a dinner party, and two people even hooked up. Because my wife practiced tennis and played professional teams in school, she often lingered in the name of playing tennis with her boss. Every time I quarrel with my wife, she always says that I was careful to prevent her from earning extra money.
After thinking about it, I planned to divorce, but my wife didn't let me leave.
Recalling the years of marriage, I learned more selfishness and indifference from my wife, but her beautiful appearance made me reluctant to let go. I am very sad now and don't know how to continue my life in the future.
Reply to bloggers:
You will always be your wife's emotional spare. She won't part with you because she understands that once she loses you, no man will really treat her. However, she is also a greedy woman, and all kinds of violence depend on your love for her.
In addition to three betrayals, I think she is also very indifferent to you on weekdays. In the marks of marriage, your efforts are displayed everywhere. Otherwise, how can you say that she is selfish?
In love, everyone is used to finding a rare opposite sex to love, while ignoring the opposite sex who loves him. It is believed that finding a person you love can show your desire to conquer in the process of pursuing, and also make your love strong.
However, love is a process of mutual warmth. If you can't catch up with the person you love in a year, you can only say that she really doesn't like you, so that two people can finally get married, not because of love, but because of affection.
At this time, for the one who loves, he will be happy and think that his dream has come true at last, but for the one who is loved, he still feels that love is still on the way. Although he is married, he still does not give up looking for true love. Obviously, her search for true love is doomed to hurt you.
She won't give you a share of her heart until she fully understands that being together is more important than I love you.
Suggestions given:
Forcible divorce, and quickly help yourself find a renewal partner after divorce.
Forcible divorce is to warn your wife that you have the courage to leave her and let her taste the suffering of life in the days without you;
Quickly looking for a continuation object is to make her feel crisis and let her understand that you are also rare for women.
In this state, if she can be smart, she can consider remarriage, otherwise, she should be relieved.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
