Sexual Health
Suspected wife cheated and held her in confrontation with the police, and the man suffered from green hat phobia
The Shenzhen man suspected that his wife was cheating. He took out the knife holder and put it on the woman's neck. After the police arrived, he held his wife to confront the police; Not long ago, I also saw a news that the man suspected his wife had an affair with his cousin and wanted to rape his sister-in-law to relieve his anger. Of course, not all men are so angry when their wives are suspected of cheating. They are more likely to be deaf and dumb while watching coldly. However, as long as they are men, they cannot tolerate their wives' cheating, which will cause a devastating blow to men. Men are more afraid of wearing green hats than women. As long as they have that tendency, they can't bear it. This is the natural hegemony and possessiveness of men.
Men are domineering, which is the nature of male animals. All animals have a sense of appetite protection. If they exceed the limit, they will be considered provocative. The same is true of men, who protect their own things, whether they are people or things, like wolf pups. Therefore, men have a strong desire to monopolize their wives, and can't tolerate the smell of other men in their wives. Once the wife is unfaithful, the husband's nerves will be tense, or he will act excessively, or he will be decadent. A man's domineering behavior is also manifested in his wife's heterosexual friends -- he treats his wife's heterosexual friends with a kind of natural hostility. No matter his classmates, friends, colleagues or even relatives, as long as he gets along with his wife more often and his wife mentions more, he will put them into the "blacklist". Once the wife gets along with these people on the "blacklist", she will be restless. The accumulated depression is called "green hat phobia", and she suspects them for a long time. She is paranoid, and finally makes some extreme behavior. For example, the man who suspects that his wife has an affair with his cousin and wants to rape his sister-in-law.
Men have a strong desire to control, because there is a "sense of insecurity" hidden in their hearts. A man will not feel anything when he is traveling or staying outside. However, if his wife is such a man, he will suspect that his wife is "haunted" and fidgety. Because his wife is out of his control, he subconsciously suspects that his wife will be unfaithful when she is outside. Some studies have shown that men's trust in women is far lower than women's trust in men, although women are mostly loyal and men are naturally romantic. Men are justified in coming back late, staying overnight, and traveling frequently. They will reveal a few things to women, but if women do so, men will chase after them to find out, and even deliberately satirize suspicious people. Men often don't answer women's phone calls and say they are busy at work. Women who don't answer men's phone calls will think they are guilty. Men who return late are entertainment. Women who return late suspect that they have an appointment outside. Men who buy new clothes are work needs. Women who buy new clothes suspect that their wives are trying to please adulterers. As long as there is a trace, they suspect that they have a green hat. He has a "sense of insecurity" in his subconscious mind, so he hopes that everything is under his control. If something happens beyond his expectation, he suspects that he is being hooded. Just like the man, his wife answered a few phone calls less and came home later and suspected that his wife was cheating. It was not to beat and scold him. It was even more threatening to hold his wife against the police.
Men are domineering by nature, and there is instability hidden in their character, so they also hope to be completely in control of their wives. When the wife is out of control, it is inevitable to suspect that she has a dark ghost and fantasize about many evidences of her "cheating".