My husband and I got married when I was four months pregnant. It's less than nine months since we got married. It should still be a time of love and honey, but I accidentally found something that shocked me.
That day, my husband walked away for a while and went to the supermarket downstairs to buy cigarettes. When the computer was not turned off, I went to hang up the Q, and his Q was also there. There was a window that had not been closed in time. I was supposed to minimize it, but I was shocked after scanning two eyes. That was the sweet talk between my husband and his first love!
At that time, I had no reaction and my hands were shaking. I can't believe that this is what my beloved husband said. Does he love me? Completely collapsed. This kind of thing happened to my child only three months ago. I can't face it!
At the beginning, my family opposed my marriage. I didn't insist on going with him. I thought I would be happy if I found love, but the truth is not that I often cried. He changed and broke my love dream. I want to leave with my child. I will be responsible for him if I give birth to him. I will not leave him. Shall I do this? Although I know they can't be together at last. His first love child is 6 years old, but his behavior is too disappointing for me. I can't see the future, so confused and sad. Should I love him? Should we continue?
Ms. Li:
His sweet talk with his first love does not mean that he has actually cheated. It is just a kind of spiritual compensation that he did not get when he first fell in love. You also know that they are impossible. Your anger is understandable, and no one will be indifferent if you change it. But whether your husband loves you or not, you as the person around him should be able to feel it.
Be more confident about yourself. Don't mess up your position because of these boring conversations. It's not worth destroying my family for this matter. It's better to be generous and give him a chance to repent. I believe that with your generosity and understanding, my husband will come back to you. Criticism, resentment, scolding and ridicule will only turn his heart elsewhere. I believe this is not what you want.