Post Date December, 03 2023
There is a saying in English: If a woman wants to please a man, she must cook him delicious food. This is indeed the case. As far as I know, relatively happy marriages are both husband and wife, looking for delicious things everywhere with relish. "If we can't eat together, we definitely can't live together.".
Men's stomachs are important to women, and women sometimes have to change their tastes to cater to men. "I know many Chinese women who marry foreigners, who used to be sure they didn't touch foreign food such as cheese at all, but now they attach great importance to exploring shops with good cheese.". When friends eat together, they can also sing and chew cheese everywhere, and sometimes they can't stop praising.
A woman who is deeply interested in her husband's "foreign appetite" has also learned to match cheese with wine, making everyone think that her "stomach" has truly "married the chicken to the chicken, married the dog to the dog.".
On the contrary, many women fail to understand the importance of a man's "stomach" to their marital relationship. I know a pair of like-minded aunts and uncles, both of whom are old revolutionaries and have come through the wars, but they just can't live together.
The reason is that my uncle is from Shandong and my aunt is from Jiangsu. When I was in Yan'an, there was nothing delicious to eat, so it would be good to fill my stomach. But once liberation was over, the material life became rich, and there was nothing to eat. Instead, the two people couldn't get along. Uncle wants to eat noodles, as well as raw onions and garlic. My aunt and he haven't found out for years that she can't stand the taste of onions and garlic.
"My aunt loves to eat rice and sprinkle a handful of sugar when cooking. Like all women in Jiangnan, she also likes to eat snacks. My uncle thinks these are too" petty bourgeoisie ".". "Because they participated in the revolution at the same time, their ranks were the same. Auntie had no concept of subjecting her" stomach "to uncle's" stomach "- both were" chief stomachs ". Why should my diet be subordinate to you?"? Auntie believes that the secular lifestyle is male chauvinism, and she always imposes her favorite foods on others. If she does not obey, she will also wear a political high hat on others.
Over time, my aunt and uncle don't eat together anymore. Uncle and his Shandong comrades-in-arms spent the night eating scallions dipped in sauce in a noodle shop outside, while Aunt made herself a sweet little stove at home. Later, because my uncle smelled like a mouthful of scallions every night, my aunt didn't sleep with him anymore. Fortunately, both of them are cadres, and if they have four bedrooms in their family, they can simply have one for each person.
From this perspective, it seems that a vigorous career is better than eating to tie couples together.
In addition to the stomach, there is one other organ of a man that determines the relationship between men and women: the arm. Men's arms are important to women. If we think carefully, apart from the face, a man's arms are the only part of the naked man's body that a woman can notice.
"Men can expose their legs, but men can stare at a woman's thigh for as long as they can. Women can't stare at a man's leg endlessly, but it's okay to look at their arms. Women's love and desire for men can sometimes be seen through their arms.". For example, in the book "Lady Chatterley's Lover," Lady Chatterley sees her lover through the sweaty, muscular arm of a long worker. Good arms can bring endless associations to women and are the beginning of romance.
Nowadays, white-collar men seem to have grasped this truth, as they all know that the little white face with thin skin and tender flesh that women liked in the 1920s and 1930s has become completely outdated. "To get a woman's attention, it is necessary to have good muscles, and since the arm is the only good place to display muscles (full of facial muscles is not acceptable), everyone is crowded in the gym to practice back and forth, and even men's clothing is designed to show good arms.".
In Hong Kong, I met a group of awesome white-collar workers who worked for some investment company. Each person wore a tight T-shirt, and their sleeves were tightly wrapped around their practiced and practiced arms. This fully proves the importance of the arm.
There are few women who pay attention to male legs, but I know one who wrote a paper on male legs, won a prize, and published it in some academic journal. This woman is from Romania, and her husband left her in Paris after coming to China to work, ignoring her. She went to the Louvre every day to see the sculpture of David by Michelangelo, and actually read a paper about a man's thigh. Although this is also an achievement, I feel that there is no value in imitating in real life. On the contrary, it always makes people feel that there must be something wrong with women who pay so much attention to men's thighs.
There are many so-called key parts that have not been addressed, such as the "heart". Everyone seems to agree that "heart" is the essence, and there are many expressions such as "conscience", "nausea", and "modesty". But I don't think so. Apart from studying medicine, who has really seen what a heart looks like? In fact, apart from jumping, the heart has no other important functions.
In addition, I have not studied the brain and male reproductive organs of men. It's difficult to think about what's in someone's mind, whether it's a man or a woman. Moreover, I heard that some men can use these two organs interchangeably, which makes them even more unfathomable. It's better to wait for an expert to dissect them.
