If you are usually busy at work and don't have time to read or learn something. Then learn a little new things every day, and perhaps you may be closer to success! People should keep learning and making progress, even if it's only a little bit every day!
As a man, if you want to live better in society, you must have your own personality. A person without personality will not only be looked down upon by others, but also cannot have sufficient strength to do anything well. A man must live a wonderful life and safeguard his dignity with his own personality!
When it comes to personality, it should be said that it is a combination of the "temperament" possessed by the innate constitution and the "personality" and "ability" developed after birth, which are commonly referred to as "character". He is closely related to people's quality, emotional fluctuations, behavioral tendencies, behavior patterns, habits, attitudes, etc. As a "benchmark for personality maturity", the following factors should be considered:
The expansion of self-awareness extends from infancy to loving oneself, to mothers, friends around them, and to adulthood, when one has "this is my thing" for one's clothing, money, and possessions. If one can expand to one's profession, family, and even to one's affiliated group company, regional society, and country, it is one of the manifestations of mature personality
Close relationship with others, respect each other, tolerate each other, and do not exclude each other. In addition to being loved, they also desire to love and understand the shortcomings of each other.
Emotional stability, not blindly repressing, not being overly judgmental, and trying not to conflict with the surrounding environment. When encountering setbacks and unsatisfied desires, they will not throw tantrums, complain, and casually blame others. Always reflect on yourself and demand solutions to problems. Even when faced with danger, they will not panic and fear; Don't feel threatened by other people's emotional performance!
4. Intuition and skills to face reality. Ability to correctly understand reality and possess problem-solving skills. "People with high intelligence are not necessarily mature personalities, but lack of intelligence is an indispensable part of a mature personality.". In short, recognize reality and your own abilities.
5 Insight and humor. Have a correct insight into yourself and understand yourself. Many people believe that they understand themselves well, but actually not many people truly understand themselves. In addition to insight into themselves, they also need a sense of humor, real humor, awareness of the gap between their ideal self and their actual self, and a sense of "humor.". In fact, life is like a drama. Being able to objectively understand the role you play and face the ups and downs of life with a humorous attitude is the expression of a mature personality.
6. Philosophy of Life. We have established policies on what constitutes the highest value in life and how we should live our lives.
If a person wants others to respect and appreciate him, they should have their own personality charm, have a certain understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses, do not feel inferior or arrogant, maintain good relationships with classmates and friends around them, attach importance to their words and behaviors, and do not do anything that would undermine their demeanor!