Sexual Health
My wife's love affair with her father is too serious. I went back to my father-in-law's house and felt the urge to divorce
On the wedding day, the wife and mother-in-law simply hugged and said goodbye, and ran away in tears when holding their father. I am a little older than my wife. Maybe because of my maturity, she has a sense of security. After the successful marriage, we have a good childhood. Life has been a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be a little friction. It is just a trivial matter, and sometimes I will not pay attention to it. She is good to my father and good to my mother.
But then I found that she often picked on me and made things happen. When I work overtime, she will call me to urge me to death, saying that I only care about my work, not my family, and don't take her seriously. I live with my parents, and they can hear the quarrel. If my mother comes up to argue, it will only add fuel to the fire. On the contrary, my father said two words, and she immediately honest, which makes me very depressed.
Some time ago, she went back to her mother's house. After her mother-in-law was busy in the kitchen, she didn't go to the kitchen to help her. Instead, she ran to her parents' room to find her father-in-law's clothes and wash them by hand. The intimate "father is long, father is short" shouted, and I obviously looked at my mother-in-law with a displeased face. I winked at her and asked me to go to the kitchen to help, but she scolded me in the face, saying that she was filial and wouldn't let me bother. But her mother-in-law was too busy in the kitchen, but she was indifferent.
After returning home, I was not angry at all. I said what I was thinking. I blamed him for his serious father complex. He actually refuted me and said that if it weren't for my maturity, she would have divorced me long ago. She should be good to her father and filial to him. Let me mind my own business. To quarrel with me at home is inseparable from her father's kindness to her. I'm going crazy. Living with such an Oedipal complex, I have a sense of collapse. Am I thinking too much?
Reply from the consultant:
From childhood, his wife is close to his father. When he grows up, he will kiss his father. In fact, what she does to her father is also what a normal daughter should do. Only when you are too sensitive, can you feel that her love complex affects your marriage. The wife thinks that you are a mature man. If she is angry about this kind of thing, she will feel that you are stingy and your image in his mind will also be greatly reduced. So communicate with the wife well and don't make trouble because it is unnecessary for divorce.