Sexual Health
My wife was pregnant before marriage, but I found out that I was infertile. I still couldn't get over my heart after enduring humiliation
I am 23 years old. My wife and I met through acquaintances in April last year. At that time, I felt that she was simple and didn't like talking. He felt that I could, too. We got along with each other with the consent of both parents. The next few days were very smooth. We went out for a stroll. I also bought clothes for her and her sister. She asked me to go to dinner every day. A week later, I returned to work and worked for a worship.
On the May Day holiday, I went back two days in advance. When we got home, we became very emotional. When he fed me cookies in her room, I overwhelmed her and kissed her. She didn't resist, and then it happened. We gave each other a greeting on May Day. The relationship that took place at my home on May 3rd.
After the festival, he went to Shanghai and I came to Wuxi. We also met in a few days and chatted every day. On May 12, she suddenly told me that she was pregnant. I don't believe it was mine. I asked her if it was mine? She said it must be mine. Then I took her back to her hometown to two hospitals for B-ultrasound. The B-ultrasound doctor told my relatives that it was not mine. This pregnancy was one week earlier than I knew him.
At that time, my family didn't tell her. I sent her to Shanghai. My family told me that it was okay to fight if I loved her. If I didn't like it, I broke up. I went to the hospital the next day to check that I couldn't get pregnant, and there was little hope of going to Shanghai to check. My family felt that God seemed to be helping me, so let it be, and treat the child as my own, so I could get married and have children.
On May 29, I still quarreled with my wife. I had a showdown with her directly. She told me that she had a blind date with me a week ago and had been with me for a month. They quarreled with each other at the man's house. The man forced her to have sex with her. At first, she was worried about pregnancy, but she was not sure after having sex with me. She wanted to have sex with me and then came to Wuxi. Now she would like to go home with me instead of having an abortion, Marry me.
What happens in the future is the same as normal pregnancy, so we got married, and then gave birth to a girl at the end of the year. My wife and I are also very good. I always wonder if I should do this?
Also, I was a virgin when I met her. She talked about an object when she was 18 years old. She handed it over for the first time in two months, and didn't talk about it until the end of the year. After the New Year, she worked in her aunt's factory. She was introduced to have a relationship with her for more than a month, and she had a relationship for a total of six months. By this year, three men had a mandatory relationship.
I just feel how she looks like she forgot the pain after she has healed the scar. I feel that it is too easy to cheat. She agrees to be nice to her. Now tell me that she regrets having a good time with me. What do you say I will do in the future?
After he was with me, he was very stable. In addition to being a little short tempered, he was simple. I accepted her, but felt that she had relations with many people. There was a problem in my heart, and I was always entangled.
reply:
1. Don't hesitate to say that your current pain is entirely your own. What have you done? You know that this girl is easy to have sex with you, and that this girl is not pregnant with your child, but you still have the courage to choose to marry her. Now that you are married, and the baby is born, you are upset again. Who can you blame?
2. You said that this girl is deceitful, but you just want to say that she is frivolous or brainless. For this reason, you look down on her in your heart. This girl may not be simply described, but it is obvious that there is no self-respect, no self-love, too casual injury. But then again, if she is not so open, how can you easily get it? Now you are holding on to this matter. Is it a little cheap to sell!
3. To tell the truth, maybe you are still too young, 23 years old, and lack of thinking about the understanding of love and marriage, and just follow the trend. Do you have your own independent understanding of marriage? You didn't, you were just following the arrangement of your family, and finally fulfilled the form of a marriage.
4. You should know that marriage is your own, and you should be responsible for your marriage and life happiness. Since you have chosen to be with her, you should give her the minimum trust and responsibility. People, don't be wise after doing things. The key is to figure out what to do in advance.
5. Don't think that you are a virgin, and your heart is not balanced. Now, don't you cook mature rice with uncooked rice? What's the use? Live your life well. As long as she treats you well after marriage, abides by her loyalty to marriage, is loyal to you emotionally, and lives with you wholeheartedly. Including the innocent child, you must be kind to her. You have no fertility. If you love your child very much, pour your love into this miserable little life. You are all in sympathy with each other, calm your mind, and stop thinking nonsense. Otherwise, torture yourself and let your family catch up with you.