Post Date December, 03 2023
My wife is a couple who has been introduced by others to marry in a flash. Before that, I used to be choosy about the women around me with the mentality of preferring scarcity to abuse. Finally, I watched many girls of the same age marry one after another. I was really worried. To tell the truth, if I put it a few years ago, I would definitely not look up to my wife. However, my career was flat and I didn't have the capital to continue to consume, so I got married in a muddle.
I thought that I would live a flat life after marriage or that my wife would be led by my nose. What I didn't expect was that I was led by my wife by my nose. This life was a little frustrating. The key is that I am now worthless in the eyes of my wife, which makes me regret marriage very much. But because the wedding, house purchase and bride price have made me and my parents in debt, how dare I choose to divorce? We have to muddle along.
I was even more surprised when I was watching a movie online last night, on impulse, I stole my wife's online chat record, only to find that my wife and a married strong man became the mistress of each other after they met because of playing mahjong, and in their chat record, I can see that my wife said nothing about me. My wife also said to the strong man obsessively, 'Brother, as long as you don't give up on me all your life, I will be your underground lover', Of course, there are more explicit contents, not to praise the other party's good figure, that is to say, the other party's sexual affairs awesome, let me like a deflated ball, paralyzed in front of the computer desk.
After thinking for a long time, I woke up my sleeping wife, and then frankly I peeped at his chat records and asked her where our marriage should go. To my surprise, my wife changed her previous domineering attitude and quickly flattered me that she was wrong. She also said that as long as I lost the bucket waist and strengthened my body, I would live wholeheartedly with me. Where is this? Do we have to judge people by their appearance?
To tell the truth, in the face of my wife's betrayal, I really want to divorce, but the material constraints make me only choose to forgive my wife. What I want to ask is, can my magnanimity win her heart?
Reply:
In life, there are many marriage modes in which people live in Cao Yingxin and in Han, but in most cases, people still use strong restraint to ensure their marriage loyalty, and try to turn each other into their favorite person through mutual accommodation. But there are also some people who will meet the opposite sex who will make them more attractive in the interpersonal relationship after marriage, and then throw them into their arms.
With regard to the figure of men, many women will think that men should not be overweight, and a little belly size is acceptable, but some women are particularly obsessed with men with symmetrical figure, including your wife. Since you live in partnership, you should fulfill her preferences. In addition, you think that men are too fat. Is it really a good thing in this era of pursuing bone feeling?
As for men's bed, it can't be said that the longer it takes, the more women will scream. The key is that men can't break up in a few minutes, which will make women feel disappointed. There are many reasons for your failure. You really need to consider strengthening your body.
As for the part of your wife's infatuation with familiar men, under normal circumstances, both women and men like young heterosexuals. If your wife doesn't love the old, then there is only one reason why she gives up on you and is infatuated with familiar men. That is, you look a little too positive on the surface, which must have a lot to do with your eating freely after marriage.
As a man, there are many rules for tying his wife. The key is to know what the other party values most, and believe that your wife doesn't want to divorce, and what she tells you in times of crisis is the truth. Your following your wife's advice to improve will be the turning point for your marriage to improve.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
