My wife complains that I am poor and has been causing a divorce all day. I reluctantly signed to end my marriage, demolished my house, and she proposed to remarry

My wife was someone I met during my work period, and we were not in the same unit. We met by chance through a friend's introduction. She is very beautiful and has a good figure. I had a good impression of her when I first met her, and every glance and smile of her were engraved in my mind. I love her very much and secretly make up my mind not to marry her back home and not give up easily. When pursuing her, it can be said that she has put in a lot of effort. Whenever she has time, she creates encounters and takes her to play, go shopping, and watch movies. Hard work pays off to those who have a heart, and a year later, she became my daughter-in-law.

When we got married, we didn't buy a house. Firstly, we couldn't work and live outside all year round; Secondly, the house in our hometown is facing demolition, and the demolition cost is also a considerable amount. My house is a two-story small western-style building, and my parents are old and have poor legs. We chose to live on the second floor, and after a simple renovation, my wife and I moved in. After getting married, I came to work in a first tier city again.

In the third year of my marriage, my wife became pregnant and I had to work hard to take care of her. She returned to her hometown and was taken care of by my parents, making us a separated couple. She had been at home for less than three months, and then she clamored for me to come back, saying she wasn't used to our family life. She accused my parents of being old, verbose, and unwilling to spend money, forcing me to go home and work. She was pregnant and didn't want to get angry. I quit my job and went back to my hometown to make a living.

Returning home, it can be said that I am starting from scratch, everything is difficult to start with, and work is not very smooth. I earned half less money than before, and with the birth of my child and the need to support my parents, my pressure suddenly came on me. Poor couples mourn in every way, my wife constantly quarrels with me, and my father also fell ill with anger because life was not going well. Now, the burden on the family has become even heavier.

My wife keeps giving me a face all day, saying that if she had known I was such an incompetent man, she shouldn't have married me in the first place. I don't want my child to grow up in such a noisy family environment. I endured not arguing with my wife, but she became even more reckless, squeezing out my parents and causing a divorce. Later on, regardless of the children, I dressed up all day and didn't look for a job, regardless of my feelings. Why didn't I realize she was such a heartless person back then?

She talked about divorce and tormented me in agony. I endured the pain and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to sign with her, so we were given the whip. She left her young child behind, and there was no news

Three years later, I gritted my teeth and worked hard to make money. I found a way to make money, and what made me even more happy was that the news of house demolition was reliable. Our house is divided into three apartments, and I developed overnight. I renovated a self occupied apartment, sold one, and rented one out. Life has returned to comfort, economic conditions have also been met, and my father's illness is also improving. At this moment, my wife appears and says she hasn't seen a child for several years, missing her. I didn't think much. She's the mother of the child, and I have no right not to let her see her.

I haven't seen her in a few years, but she is still so beautiful, and I feel a little changed due to the pressure of life. I feel a bit uneasy, after all, I haven't seen her in a few years, but when I think of her abandoning me back then, I feel a faint hatred in my heart. She first exchanged pleasantries for a while, then spoke about remarriage, which left me stunned and my heart trembling with excitement. After three years of divorce, she finally figured it out? Just think about it, less than half a year after our house was demolished, she suddenly came over to remarry. What is this really about? Should I promise her?

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

A person left you at your most difficult moment and disappeared without a trace, while at the moment you developed, she first appeared in front of you, saying that she was not profitable, which is really hard to believe. Although you are divorced, you still remember her in your heart. At the moment she wanted to see the child, you did not hesitate. Deep down, you longed to see her and know if she was doing well, which you cannot deny.

However, if a person's heart is bad, you can't even cover it with warmth. You must be cautious and cautious when it comes to remarriage at this critical moment. Even if you really want this marriage to be restored in your heart, don't show it too clearly. You should have insight into her thoughts and goals. If you sincerely repent, you can accept it. If you are looking for your money, then there is no need to talk. Over time, see the heart, think twice before acting.