Post Date December, 02 2023
We have been married for 13 years. Before 2014, the relationship between husband and wife was good. In recent years, all conditions have been good. We have a house, a deposit of 200000 yuan, two children, a son of 12 years old and a daughter of 10 years old. Because the conditions are good, I don't want my wife to go out and work hard. I just let her take care of the family and take care of the children at home. I work locally to earn money to support my family.
Because of work, I will eat out at noon or in the afternoon ten times a month, and I will get home at about 12:00 pm about five or six days a month, but I am doing my business. There is no special reason after work. I will go home to feel the warmth of my home and always trust her. Usually, she will chat online on QQ and WeChat to kill time.
Last August and September, I could tell from her attitude towards me and her children, dress, behavior, and other aspects that she had a problem, and reminded her many times. At the same time, I went to check her communication records, which proved everything. Once I communicated with her, she said it was me who picked her up, and she had asked for divorce many times before, and also wanted to divorce me. I had no choice but to communicate with her parents three times in front of her. She also refused to admit it in front of me and her parents. Of course, her parents always helped her.
In January this year, I told her and her parents that she and a married man who both knew each other, arrived at 7:00 in the morning and arrived at 12:00 in the evening. There were more than ten calls and text messages a day, and they had no business and economic contacts. They only contacted each other when I was away. After contacting, she deleted the records of calls and text messages on her mobile phone. When I told her all this in front of her and her parents, she didn't feel guilty at all, and asked me to take out the photos of their relationship, or when they were caught in bed.
She asked me for divorce many times at that time, and of course her parents also helped her. Under such circumstances, I think that as long as she can really change and think that the child is in the rebellious period, I have bowed my head to make up with her for many times. But by the beginning of April this year, she had not changed a little. Later, I used some means according to everything I had mastered. At the beginning of April this year, after three days of communication with her, she told me where she had a relationship with that man on a certain day, a certain year, and several times in total. At that time, I was very painful and painful, but I thought about the impact of divorce on children. I thought that as long as she really repented and wanted to let her parents know all the truth, I could help her really repent. After I did ideological work for her, I asked her to admit everything to her parents and admit her mistakes, but until the beginning of June this year, she had not changed much.
We quarreled in the communication a month ago, and she has filed a lawsuit for divorce in the court. Now I also think that she has been given too many opportunities to repent, and she is determined to leave if she doesn't cherish me. Brother Shan, I have a recording of her going to admit everything to her parents, a recording of why the married man confessed to me and my parents, and he volunteered to tell me where and where the person and person had several improper sexual relations on a certain date, which caused harm to me and my family. How much money did I voluntarily pay to compensate someone, and the receipt signed by the other party and printed by hand, how much do I want to secure the custody of the two children? If the woman doesn't let go of the custody of the child, will the court betray the custody of the two children to me? Please give me some advice. Thank you.
reply:
The reason why your wife has no feelings for you is that she doesn't care about you and doesn't love you anymore. A woman may be like this. Once she doesn't love her, she will choose to give up completely. She doesn't care how many opportunities you give her, how poor the child is, and how you feel. The only thing she wants to do is run away from you.
Perhaps it was her momentary obsession, maybe it was her momentary impulse, and another driving factor was the encouragement from her parents behind her, which undoubtedly pushed her onto a path of derailment. In fact, if she is really hostile to you and she really chooses to break up the family, then maybe she will regret her choice one day, and then you will have a chance to overturn.
However, when you think about it carefully, you can't say that your wife has come to this stage without you. At least you have to admit that you lack the necessary escort for her, do not meet her real needs, even if you spoiled her, you should also reflect on yourself.
For the moment, it's all tears. Your wife has decided to divorce you and has filed a lawsuit in court without hesitation. It seems that she is really determined. Now that marriage has reached this level, you are welcome if she is unkind. Use all your evidence to fight this lawsuit with her. From your existing evidence, I think it is not difficult to fight for the custody of the child. After all, she is the wrong party of the marriage. I believe that the balance of the law must be biased towards justice.
Be a strong man. When your beloved woman resolutely insists on leaving you, please bury your inner pain deeply, and then shoulder your responsibility as a father, love your children well, treat your relatives well, never abandon yourself, never give up, actively and bravely continue to walk well in your future life, never give up in setbacks, and live a self-reliant and confident life.
