Li Wei also admitted that he is not a good man who loves home. Before becoming a family, he often fools around with women in some entertainment places. There was a time when I felt that this was not good, and I actually converged for half a year. Since I met Xiaoli, I didn't expect that they could talk to each other. They were very congenial. In order to marry his wife, he was very good at dressing up. After two months of knowing each other, they officially established a relationship and got married a year later.
During her love, Xiao Li has cohabited with him. However, he always felt that it was not exciting enough. He still stole when he was addicted to sex. He could not bear to spend a lot of money. He always spent dozens of yuan in some small hotels, hair salons and other places to kill loneliness. After marriage, Xiao Li found out that he had this problem. But at that time, she had been pregnant for more than five months. Once she picked up several yellow hairs on the sweater Li Wei was wearing, but she never permed, so the letter was not her own, and she smelled a strong fragrance on his underwear.
Xiao Li made a lot of noise that time. She packed her luggage and wanted to go back to her mother's house for divorce. Later, Li Wei just knelt down and begged her to forgive her once for the sake of the child, and promised that this was the first and last time. That night, she took out a piece of paper and made a three-chapter agreement with Li Wei. Among them, there was a poisonous oath that "if there is any more cheating, only divorce will happen, and the family will die". But does it work?
Since then, Li Wei has really become honest for a long time. Sometimes I feel very itchy, but for the sake of the family and the old face of my father and mother, I still hold on. Wait until the baby is born. Maybe Xiaoli relaxed her guard, and Li Wei's old habit began to recur. It seemed difficult to control herself. The funds issued by the unit were never handed in, and they were secretly saved and played.
Li Wei met Xiao Hong in the company. She was a newly assigned college student. The factory asked Li Wei to take her with him to be her teacher.
Xiao Hong is very lively and delicate, especially the potential temptation in her watery eyes. She is a girl with a good eye. She is very diligent. When Li Wei is tired, she will hold a paper box beside her to help fan the wind. When she is thirsty, she will take the initiative to go out to buy water. Li Wei said that he was seven years older than her, but he liked her very much. His own specialty in machine tools was also good to impart his experience to her unreservedly. Xiao Hong has improved very quickly. Of course, she always puts her thanks on her lips. Li Wei's heart is very hot when she calls her master one by one.
I remember that it was a party held by the unit. Xiao Hong's performance was very eye-catching. Li Wei also offered flowers for her apprentice. Xiao Hong was very grateful that night and made a hug in public. After the party, Li Wei asked her to come to her factory dormitory. That night, he was very rude to Xiao Hong. She didn't complain about anything. She just said that she was going to get married. She was afraid that her boyfriend would find it bad after that. Later, Li Wei drove her home...
Some things are likely to form habits once they start. Li Wei didn't show much warmth to Xiao Wang in his work, but when he was free from flaws, he would always be dishonest to Xiao Hong, even if he only had a chance to be alone for more than 20 minutes, without letting her go, and then Xiao Hong also took the initiative to cooperate. Li Wei knew that his disciples also liked him. However, after all, they haven't married yet, and they are going to marry, so sometimes he thinks it is very contradictory. Li Wei was always sour when he thought that Xiao Hong was going to marry.
Xiao Hong is getting married, and she has asked for more than two months' leave from the company. In the days when he left her, Li Wei felt a sense of loss. He lost his soul like a brokenhearted man. Before long, he began to torture himself crazily again, and lust revived again. After returning to the old way, Li Wei said that he didn't even use a condom when he was with some dirty women.
After Xiaohong came back to work from her honeymoon, one day Li Wei took the opportunity to take Xiaohong to the corner of the loan box and take her. After that, Xiaohong resolutely proposed to break up and said that it would never be like this again. If her colleagues found out and spread it out, she would be ashamed to see people. Besides, she just got married and did not take contraceptive measures, which was very dangerous. Then Li Wei reluctantly agreed to her. As for what happened to Li Wei soon after, I don't know whether it hurt Xiao Hong or whether it had anything to do with Xiao Hong..
Li Wei's lower body began to grow small pimples. Later, his wife also had a reaction. She was also very itchy. She went to the hospital for an examination and was diagnosed with that shameful disease. After returning home, his wife let Li Wei confess that she knew what her husband was? She asked for divorce again, but when Li Wei agreed to divorce, she hesitated. There were too many things that women could not put down...
That time, the husband and wife went to the treatment together and spent a lot of money. Li Wei once again sincerely repented. His strength is that he can coax his wife. Every time he said a good word, Xiao Li would be softened, and he promised to eat more...
In fact, when a woman finds out that her beloved husband is cheating, she'd better not expose his lies to her face, let alone encourage Li Wei to indulge like Xiao Li. Smart women will irrationally and methodically make men understand that they are wrong, and make them feel guilty and take the initiative to turn back.
It is not the best way to end a marriage that still has hope to be saved. A very cruel reality is that many women choose to leave absolutely in the face of men's cheating, and have not obtained complete relief, nor have they found the expected happiness again.
Life is not a fairy tale, and love is not as holy as you think. Anyone born in this mortal world may deviate from the normal marriage track. Give the other party a chance to return, but also give yourself a happy exit. Therefore, when there is a crisis in marriage, it is more practical to take positive rescue measures than to fight back passively.
To tell the truth, I admire such broad-minded women as Xiao Li. Sometimes what they do makes men feel puzzled. It is not clear why they have formed such a view of marriage? Is it related to your life background and knowledge? You are the same as yourself. Anyway, you don't care about your man's trifles.
"It doesn't matter" is not a good omen in marriage, and couples should be more "it matters", so that there is a feeling of fish and water between each other. Feelings are the most selfish in marriage, and no one wants to share them with others. But once you have a "indifferent" attitude, you may have a disease.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)