I am 25 years old this year, and our son is now over 20 months old. Discovered that my husband had an affair. Once, my phone had a memory card with several cards, and I said I didn't need them anymore. I used it. One day, I watched the video and it looked like it was in a hotel with white sheets. It's just a woman in a hotel, wearing nothing, talking to him after taking a shower. Ask him, what are you doing? He said, "Where am I working on my phone?" I heard his voice too, and I was very nervous when I heard it.
I think the date is February 6th, 2009. At that time, I happened to be pregnant. That day was when I went home to see my parents.
I asked him angrily, "What's the matter with this video?" He said, "It's definitely not mine. Perhaps it was recorded by my buddies? If it is, it definitely can't be shown to me
But I feel like I can't face him now. I feel nauseous when I look at him. I think he's not clean anymore, and he's not perfect either. He had women before, and I didn't take it to heart. Actually, I thought he would correct it if we got married. Our store is opening tomorrow.
Reply:
First of all, thank you for your trust in me. First of all, I would like to express my understanding and sympathy for your experience.
Now that things have been going on for so long and your child is only 20 months old, can you divorce? I think you need to think carefully and think more about your happiness, as well as the happiness of your children.
A truly honest man may only be with one woman in his lifetime. As the saying goes, the river and the mountain are easy to change, but the nature is hard to change! It seems that your husband is not the honest type. In fact, during a woman's pregnancy, it is also a dangerous period for a man to cheat. Now that things have come to an end, it's impossible for you to have this man complete. Choosing a divorce is possible, but it may not be what you want, which is why you are so entangled in pain.
If you really want a divorce, then gather all the evidence. If you want to find the perfect love, you try to leave him. If you can't get a divorce, you need to let this matter pass quickly and don't escalate the pain.
I suggest you talk to him first, make a three chapter agreement with him, and give him some color to see. Of course, you can also give him another chance. I hope this lesson can help your husband restrain himself.
It's no use feeling sad and sad. What we need to do now is to do a good job in your business. Women have independence and confidence, and I believe men will also look at you differently. Learn to protect yourself and make your life better.