Post Date December, 02 2023
I have been married to my husband for five years and have been following him everywhere, but I haven't made a name for myself. Evaluation of my husband: I want to become a fat man with one bite, but I don't have the chance to make a fortune.
The husband is a bit snobbish, and his friends are all owners of their own companies. Watching my husband grovel like a slave in front of his friends makes me feel sick.
My husband and I were college classmates, and we knew at the time that his family was poor, but I didn't dislike him. To be honest, I was also a great beauty at school at that time, and there were many men chasing me. The reason why I was so devoted to my husband was to give three considerations: 1) He was good to me; 2) He is dedicated; 3) He studies hard.
At that time, I thought that even if I couldn't afford to marry such a man, at least we wouldn't die of hunger.
I am not a material woman, I value the feeling of being together more. Maybe all men in love are liars.
After marriage, I found out that my husband is a very lazy person, and he is too lazy to wash his socks. The key is that as long as I go back to my mother's house for a few days, the house looks like a pigsty.
"If women are supposed to be responsible for household chores, I've accepted my fate, but I can't stand my husband's inability to persist in a company for even a year. Either he doesn't feel valued by the leadership, or he has no future.".
Women, after marriage, do not seek stability, but in the past five years, we have moved more than ten times.
Although I have been deeply dissatisfied with my husband's oppression, I have never complained in front of him, and I firmly believe that with his personality, he will one day be able to make a difference.
A few days later, he brought several "wealthy" friends home for a drink. During that time, a friend said to him, "Recently, I discovered a project that can make money without losing, but needs to invest more than 100000 yuan."
"My husband said at the time, 'I only have fifty or sixty thousand yuan on hand. What about the rest of the money?'" (Actually, my husband and I have less than ten thousand yuan in savings). "
Another man jokingly said, "Fifty thousand yuan is a small sum, depending on whether you are willing to compromise." The husband asked, "What kind of compromise method?"
The man said, "Brother, you also know that I have liked your wife for a long time. Otherwise, if you lend your wife to me for ten days, I will immediately give you 50000 yuan, as promised." I was at my side and cursed the man.
"Unexpectedly, my husband roared at me, 'You stinking bitch, you didn't see us talking about something. What's your butt in?'"
The husband even brought pen and paper to sign an agreement with the man. In a fit of anger, I flipped the table and the people left unhappily. At the same time, my husband also gave me two slaps in the face.
I have been in a cold war with my husband ever since, and suddenly I feel that he is so strange.
Re:
A man who wanders in the Jianghu and can be both a master and a grandson can get along well. However, even being a grandson requires the dignity of being a grandson. Obviously, your husband is already poor and crazy, and even dares to agree to things like renting a wife.
Your husband climbs up to rich people every day, but he doesn't know that he is an incompetent clown in the eyes of those rich people. At best, it can also serve as a laughing stock for wealthy people when they are bored.
In fact, one of the wealthy people didn't like you for a long time, just nagging in front of your husband many times about liking you (actually, it's sarcastic or flirting with your husband), but your husband took it seriously.
What is a good woman? Before marriage, they rely on their parents' education, and after marriage, they rely on their husbands' influence. Obviously, you were a good woman before marriage, but after marriage, your husband did not give you positive energy.
Your tolerance and kindness did not bring a touch of affection to your husband, but rather made him grow in strength. To do this, you need to understand that people who have no bottom line and do not understand gratitude are actually very scary.
Nowadays, it's just a bargaining session at the dinner table. Don't wait until your husband actually sells you, and you still feel aggrieved and help him count the money.
This kind of garbage man doesn't need it anymore.
"He originally had nothing, and you followed him to value the word 'affection'. Now, what you have gained is' heartlessness'. Should you consider kicking him?"?
In life, there will be many willing and reluctant to give up. This kind of man is not worth your continued nostalgia, perseverance, and trust.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
