Post Date December, 02 2023
He is a person who values family and emotions
When I first met Chen Tao, I had a special feeling. At that time, we all worked in the hospital, and Chen Tao was my colleague. He was not tall and had small eyes, but he was full of wisdom. He exudes the aura and demeanor of a mature man all over. Similarly, while wearing work clothes, Chen Tao's clothes are always the cleanest and most well ironed, and he has a calm demeanor in everything he does, not being surprised by insults.
Frequent work in an air-conditioned room can inevitably result in dry skin. Once, when I was copying a manuscript, I pulled out a large stack of copy paper. Unexpectedly, the force was too strong, and the white paper cut through my skin like a knife, causing crimson blood to flow out. Chen Tao happened to pass by and immediately took out a handkerchief from his pocket to help me wipe it, and then carefully bandaged it for me. Although the package is already very good, looking at Chen Tao, who is usually capable, sometimes I feel at a loss, but my heart is sweet. In this era, men still use handkerchiefs, so they must be someone who values family and emotions.
After that, there was a spark between us. After dating, I found that Chen Tao is really a very careful person, he always keeps up with my thoughts in a timely manner. Once while shopping, I came across a necklace that was too expensive for me to buy. I didn't expect that necklace to shine brightly in front of me on my birthday. I know that Chen Tao's salary is not very high either. What are some people's concerns about selflessly treating themselves like this? That day, I really felt like I was the luckiest person in the world to meet a man who loved me so much. Later, we got married, and a year later, I gave birth to a son.
After marriage, Chen Tao has always been a good husband and father. He also performed outstandingly in his work and was promoted to become the deputy director of surgery within two years. My job has always been mediocre, so I worked even harder to learn how to do housework and take care of him meticulously. I carefully ironed his clothes, including handkerchiefs. My son grows up day by day, lively and lovely. Our family is in harmony, warm and sweet. I often feel that it is a very happy thing for a woman to stay at such a home for a lifetime.
Husband resigns to start a company
Until three years ago, the director of Chen Tao's department was promoted, leaving a vacancy. His abilities are evident to everyone, and his promotion is also well received. Chen Tao is also in control of the victory, full of confidence. However, half a month later, the list of candidates came down and it was not Chen Tao. After Chen Tao returned, he remained silent and couldn't sleep at night, tossing and turning. I'm really worried that he might not be able to bear it. But the next day, he still went to work in high spirits, showing no signs of desolation at all. I thought he had figured it out, but for the next few days, Chen Tao was very busy, working late every day. I feel like he has some plans, but he said the timing is not yet ripe, let me know later.
Sure enough, a month later, Chen Tao said to me with great anticipation, "During this period, I conducted a market survey and found that the real estate market in Xuzhou has a lot of room for growth. If I were a real estate agent, I would definitely have a great future. I decided to resign and venture into it." As a traditional woman, I didn't want my husband to lose his golden job. I had a disagreement with Chen Tao over this matter. Despite my obstruction, he started renting a business building and recruiting personnel. Every day, he worked very hard and always fell asleep when he came back. Our communication is becoming less and less, and I really love him. I always help him stew some soup to nourish his body.
Chen Tao said that the company is too busy and wants to hire another reliable person to manage the company's internal affairs. I immediately thought of Qin Fang. Qin Fang was a good friend I grew up with, and she had just experienced a failed marriage a while ago, which made her feel a bit disheartened. When I asked her to come to the company to help, she quickly agreed and said she really wanted to change her environment and mood.
Qin Fang was indeed very capable and quickly managed the company in an orderly manner. Chen Tao often praised her in front of me. I am also very relieved that I can finally help my husband. Within a year, Chentao's company developed rapidly. The emperor does not disappoint those who have a heart, and Chen Tao's hard work has not been in vain. With the help of the east wind of real estate, his intermediary work is also in full swing. A year later, he became a millionaire. On the day he drove back to his first Mercedes Benz, he solemnly said to me, "Xiao Wei, don't go to work anymore, just be a full-time wife at home. I like the feeling of having a woman cook a good meal and wait for me to come back." Although my job didn't earn much money, I didn't want to give up easily, but seeing Chen Tao working so hard, I also wanted to help him better. So I reluctantly resigned from my job and spent all day at home doing household chores.
Friend has become a third party
I seldom go to the company, but one day when I went to Carrefour, I stopped by the company to have a look. When I pushed open the door of Chen Tao's office, I saw Qin Fang and Chen Tao getting very close. As soon as I saw them come in, they immediately parted ways with an awkward expression. A thought immediately flashed through my mind, but it was immediately denied. How can I doubt my closest person and my best friend?
I didn't take this matter to heart, but soon, it was already circulating outside, and I realized that everything I least wanted to see really happened. I was so angry that I never expected Qin Fang to become a bomb between me and Chen Tao. My best friend is actually with my husband. I always thought it was just a plot on TV, but when it really appeared in my life, I was at a loss and couldn't accept this reality.
It is said that men become bad when they have money, but I never believe that Chen Tao would be such a person. When I asked Chen Tao why with tears on my face, he didn't say a word, just asked me for forgiveness with a guilty expression on his face. I couldn't help but ask Qin Fang out, She looked calmly and said, "I have prepared for the worst. No matter how you scold me, I will not retaliate. This is the price that someone who falls in love with a married man should pay." I exclaimed indignantly, "Why do you want to be a third party? Have you forgotten how you lost your happiness?" Qin Fang cried, "I haven't forgotten, but I can't control myself." I slapped Qin Fang hysterically in the face. The next day, Qin Fang left the company.
A few days later, Chen Tao bought me the most fashionable diamond ring, but I didn't even look at it. I am not a material woman, I just want a husband who loves me. If Chen Tao no longer loves me, what is the point of guarding these golden jewelry? I waited for Chen Tao to give me a reasonable explanation, but he didn't say anything.
After five years of marriage, I feel like I'm getting less and less familiar with him. Chen Tao's betrayal disappointed me. I always thought I had a husband who loved me deeply, but I didn't expect it to be just a "dream of Nanke Yimeng". I even thought of divorce, but when I think of my son, my heart softens. I don't want him to face a broken family so early. I want to use tenderness to redeem Chen Tao's heart, but whenever I think about what happened between him and Qin Fang, I can't do anything. We are gradually falling into a cold war, and Chen Tao is also somewhat self deprecating and indifferent to the company.
The third party makes me feel a bit sympathetic
It is said that 'flowers never turn red for a hundred days'. At the beginning of this year, the accountant of Chentao Company ran away with a sum of money, and the internal management was in a mess. His former friends refused to lend him money for turnover, and his career encountered a serious crisis. I saw it in my eyes and was anxious in my heart, but there was nothing I could do. But soon the matter was settled, it was said that someone had transferred a large amount of funds to the company. I'm surprised, who is so kind to help him? Later, I found out that the person who secretly helped Chen Tao was actually Qin Fang!
When I found Qin Fang again, she was lying on the balcony basking in the sun, her stomach slightly bulging. I asked her if she wanted to use the company's affairs to reconcile with Chen Tao. She said, "Career is everything for Chen Tao. Without career, he would be finished. Don't worry, I won't pester him anymore. I have found someone who loves me deeply and has his flesh and blood." I believed it true. After the company's economy returned to normal, I transferred the money to Qin Fang's account, thinking that there would be no more disputes from then on. My relationship with Chen Tao gradually heated up, but ultimately we couldn't go back to the past. We became more polite and unfamiliar with each other.
Not long ago, I met Qin Fang in the park, pushing her child for a walk on the grass. I was surprised to find that the child's eyebrows looked very similar to Chen Tao. I couldn't help but ask her if it was Chen Tao's child. She initially wanted to conceal it, but eventually admitted it was true. Qin Fang said, "I never thought about getting Chen Tao divorced. I don't want to disrupt your existing harmony and peace, but I really couldn't help but fall in love with him. When I divorced my ex husband, I regretted not leaving a child. When I left Chen Tao, I was ecstatic to find out that I had his child. I just want to have a child that belongs to me when I grow old. You don't have to worry, Chen Tao doesn't know about his existence
Upon hearing Qin Fang's words, I was extremely shocked. I had always thought that Qin Fang had only fallen in love with Chen Tao for a moment of loneliness, but I didn't expect her to fall in love so deeply. At that moment, I realized that I didn't hate her as much as I imagined. Instead, I sympathized with her and her child. After all, he was innocent, and he had to bear more pressure from birth than other children.
After returning, I asked Chen Tao if he really loved Qin Fang. This time, he didn't shy away and finally admitted that he had once had a genuine affection for her, but it had already passed. His emotional expression confirmed to me that he still loves Qin Fang. I don't know if I should quietly walk away and let him return to Qin Fang's side, so that Qin Fang's child has a legitimate father. My family all say I'm crazy, how could anyone give up my husband to a third party, but what's the point of keeping a husband who no longer loves me?
I want to tell Xiaowei whether to give up this marriage is your freedom and right. Being able to come and confide in the column indicates that you still want to save your marriage. In that case, efforts should be made to adjust the emotional mindset, actively engage in self adjustment of the character, retrieve the lost self, and the repaired marriage boat can also sail far.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
