My husband betrayed his marriage and I was unwilling to revenge. On impulse, I climbed into the bed of a strange man

My husband is my first love. We realized that it took about ten years to get married. After marriage, we struggled together, accumulated some money, and wanted to start our own company as the boss. After hearing about it, the parents of both sides took out their pension money to help us. We didn't let them down and started our own company. It is small, but the operation is good and profitable.

The two people encourage and support each other, and the company is getting better and better. After that, I had a baby and had no time to pay attention to the company's affairs. He stayed at home to take care of the children. He ran the company alone and took care of me and the children wholeheartedly. I am devoted to being a good wife and mother at home. He works hard to take care of the company outside. However, a happy life is always short. The husband's wallet is getting bigger and bigger, and his thoughts are getting more and more.

Marriage has not escaped the seven-year itch. A few months ago, I felt his abnormality. After work, I was often absent-minded, fidgety, mobile phone is not away, and I have to take a bath with me, which made me suspicious. I secretly looked at his mobile phone and found his intimate photos with strange women. I felt sick and flipped the card in front of him. He was scared and scared. He said that he was confused for a while, drunk and delayed, and the third party kept pestering him. He was afraid that the other party would tell me, so he obeyed her.

It's really funny to be threatened by a third party. He looked at my disdainful face and was worried. He also swore to the sky that he would break up with the third party completely. Seeing him like that, I was so angry that I couldn't speak, and my heart was full of hate towards him. After the matter was exposed, he was not guilty. He doubled his compensation to me and obeyed me. But I was not reconciled. I thought a lot of ways to revenge him and lost my temper uncontrollably.

Once I made trouble for nothing and irritated him. I ran out to find a friend to drink and dance crazily to indulge myself. After that, I was attracted by a mature and handsome man. He danced with me and drank with me. I was dizzy and followed him to open a room. That kind of thing happened. My friend also knows this. I didn't listen to her dissuasion. I just wanted to follow my temper. Soon, the affair of my cheating spread to my husband. He was angry and anxious. He scolded himself for being useless and slapped himself in the face. He advised me not to be so depraved. After all, we still have children. How to face us when the children are sensible in the future.

I shed tears. Although I have got the pleasure of revenge, I am not happy. On the contrary, I think our marriage can't go back to the past. What kind of marriage are you talking about when your feelings are gone?

Reply from the consultant:

From the beginning to the end, you are still worried about your husband's betrayal. You are a couple in distress, and it is not easy along the way. He did something wrong in a moment of confusion and asked you to forgive him afterwards. You are naturally not reconciled. There are many ways to retaliate against others, but you can't exchange your body. This is an act of self-abuse, and it is also depraved. Your husband is right. If your child grows up and knows your behavior, how should he face you.

It is recommended that you communicate with your husband well. Things have come out. Learn to let go. Don't do such immature things. It is not easy to run a family. Why bother to make yourself so sad. If you feel that it is unnecessary to continue to live and have made plans for divorce, then you should maintain your rights and make plans for your future life. I wish you happiness.