In life, the separation, separation and combination of men and women in love have become commonplace in our eyes. When men and women want to break up with each other, they have their own handling methods and tricks. Here we specially interviewed emotional experts to summarize the most common reasons for men to break up with women. Come and have a look!
What excuses do men like to break up with women? Here I want to make a simple list and analysis. When men break up, they like to find the following excuses:
I don't want love to delay my career
When falling in love, men regard love as a catalyst for their career. Work and love are both right. When it comes to breaking up, men regard love as the reason for breaking up. Women understand that men put their careers first, and good men are ambitious. If possible, women are willing to wait for men to succeed in their careers to continue their relationship with men. Unexpectedly, time will always be the greatest enemy of men. After a few years, men and women will marry each other, and the fake excuse for breaking up has long been forgotten.
I can't stand your many shortcomings
When chasing women, women were perfect in men's eyes, and even the obvious shortcomings were lovely in men's eyes. But when the feeling of passionate love is no longer what it used to be, the problems also come one after another. Pick the root and pick the thorn. Women have many shortcomings at once, and have to admire men's sharp eyes. Men use this as a reason to break up. Poor women can't see the man's face clearly. They would rather swear to change these false desires and crimes, but also follow the man with a dead face. Until after breaking up, women blamed themselves for their shortcomings.
I have done what I am sorry for you, and I am no longer qualified to love you
Men once promised women, "I will not do anything wrong to you in this life". But commitment is something that sin can't rely on. Once the enthusiasm of men cools down, they can no longer resist the temptation of the outside world, and new lovers also emerge as the times require. Then, another hot love began, and the shelf life of love with the previous woman also ended.
He simply confessed his fault in order to get the sympathy and tolerance of women. Women intend to give men another chance, but men have strengthened their will and will no longer accept women's forgiveness on the grounds of ineligibility. However, women have to let men go, but there is no hatred for men in the bottom of their hearts, only regret.
Women should learn to be smart. They should not lose money when they fall in love, and the same is true when they break up. We are very good. We can't let the man who dumped us flatten to nothing. See through the reasons of men's breakup and be an intelligent woman.
I can't give you more happiness. I hope you can find a better man than me!
This sentence is not necessarily expressed in words. It will be expressed to you in actions and emotions. It will make you have a process of psychological acceptance. With all due respect, in the final analysis, he is just waiting for a woman to take the initiative to speak. He constantly thinks that you are thinking about it. On the ground that he still loves you but is not able to give you enough happiness, he will gradually break up.
No matter how beautiful it is, the ultimate goal is to break up with you, and the fundamental reason is not to love you. So why do they make the simple word "break up" so complicated? They have at least two kinds of psychology. On the one hand, they are afraid that women will pester themselves, which will make them feel inferior, so they play the sad card in the name of love in front of women; On the other hand, it is to give women a step, as a joke on the Internet said: If possible, it is better to leave the word "break up" to the girl you once loved.
It is true that there are people who break up with women because of this kind of psychology in life, but it is really too few. And whether they really think so can be seen from his actions and past character. On this point, if women are a little sober, they will have their own feelings.
I'm for you. There are many things I can't tell you. Let's break up!
Compared with the above three kinds, this kind of man is more able to play. He doesn't tell you anything, just plays with you deeply. And deep men are often the most real pain in women's hearts. He will put all his past and commitments in front of you in one sentence: "Honey, I'm for you. There are many things I can't tell you now, but you will understand later. Let's break up!"
How deep and manly it is. Women are intoxicated with it. But the sky is always blue. I'm afraid that when the woman understands it later, this man will hold other women in his arms. At that time, he must understand it, and understand it is also unclear. In the end, when he broke up with you, he did not love you. Women are just fooled by men. My family doesn't agree with me to be with you. I don't want to delay your youth like this!
On the issue of breaking up, many men will not admit that their willingness to break up is because they no longer love you. So he would take it for granted to pull out his parents and launch sugar-coating and tangled exhortation to the woman under the pretext of his parents' authority and his filial piety. The more cunning a man is, the more he can perform the play. He can "reveal" such information to you a few months in advance, and show his tangle, let the woman ask him why, and then push the boat along the river to make the woman believe that there is no doubt... However, forgive me for being frank, there are quite a number of men who have already set the abacus N times in their hearts.
With such an analysis, I do not intend to worsen the inner ugliness of men, but there are many such examples and people in real life. It is really despicable and shameful to let women divide their hands and still look back in grief.
Please give me two years. In these two years, I will work hard alone, and I will come back to marry you!
Some men will make a promise to women when breaking up, leaving a heroic speech to make women moved, but they have to accept his promise to "go far for love", but the ultimate solution to break up is time and distance... On this issue, the real man has already thought about it, he knows better than anyone that time and distance will change everything, and he doesn't have to break up with women himself, Time and distance will allow women to make their own choices. Anyway, as long as two people are not together, I am an independent and free person. You have no idea what I will do with which woman to continue to be together.
To tell you the truth, I have to admire the "wisdom" of this man. I just want to tell the secret here. I don't know how many such "excellent men" will hate me to the bone.
Editor's note: male friends should pay attention to the fact that if a relationship is no longer in love, at least it should be clearly understood. Don't be the one who delays the happiness of the other party.