The physical and mental secrets of men are the true secrets. Uncovering scars seems to make men feel unbearable! There is no reason to criticize men for keeping those secrets, and uncovering the answers is only to give men more understanding.
Past emotional experiences
Every man's past is a well preserved spiritual diary, which may occasionally be taken out and flipped over, but it will never be easily shared with others; Especially the chapter about women. But almost all men have complex and turbulent emotional experiences. In the men's circle, showing off how outstanding and beautiful the women around him have been is also a special way for men to prove themselves; But in the face of women nowadays, they will never easily mention it, because even the unforgettable past is a matter of another world. Moreover, even women with high quality and self-restraint are inevitably not willing to break the sand pot and ask the truth about past events. If they encounter a 'jealous jar', wouldn't it be like they are asking for trouble?
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them, wanting to have everything they love is an instinct, an instinct of love. But once you know, besides the pain, what else will be left behind? Love requires sincerity, but it also requires secrets. The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and keep love fresh and mysterious.
The vanity of men
Men are all players, and if a man enjoys racing and is also a center forward on the football field, his charm will suddenly increase in front of women. Therefore, men must have several true skills, and at worst, they must play one of them with style, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there was a man who played tennis for his godgirlfriend and secretly practiced hard himself first. The house cannot be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money buying fragrant cars to deceive and deceive. It is impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.
Men's Sexual Anxiety
One theory is that men have a one-time fantasy every six minutes, and they won't think about it until they are busy with it. After thinking about it every 6 minutes for 6 consecutive days, men start to need to do something about it, but few women know about men's anxiety about sex. Many men have wondered in their hearts how big this thing can be once they have an erection, before they have had the opportunity to give their penis a try? They constantly comfort themselves by saying that size is not the key - 'it's not about its size, it's about how you use it'. But in fact, the issue of size has always plagued them. In addition, men are afraid of women who are more skilled than them in bed, and this kind of competition will make them afraid. Of course, when men cannot, they are most afraid of women saying, "Are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., which are all bad names that men dare not face.
Men's Child Psychology
The ideal image of a tough man in a woman's mind, such as Takakura, has taught men not to shed tears lightly. Therefore, men have developed a habit of denying their emotions since childhood - knocking out their teeth and swallowing them into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike affection is a sign of weakness. If Japanese people experience business failures or the dissolution of the Australian cabinet and cry, it must be the headline news that immediately appears in the newspaper.
Do you know? Therefore, more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is even higher than women.
Every man has a Oedipus complex more or less, especially those men who lacked maternal love when they were young. They often nestle in the arms of their beloved women in the dead of night. Of course, this complex will not spread everywhere. The woman in front of him must be his favorite and most trustworthy woman, because he will feel safe only in front of his beloved woman.
A man is easy to grasp, no matter how many false appearances he has, as long as you love him, you can find his way from the infinite hidden world behind him.