As a man, when he sees a girl he likes, he has an impulse to go over and chat up. However, if you are afraid that your actions will scare her away, you will always hesitate. If you want to succeed in chatting up, you must first improve your charm. The following few ways to chat up can make your charm index soar. Come and try it!
1. Comments Opening Remarks Chat up Opening Remarks
Features: Relatively natural, can be used in daily life and nightclubs, with a high hit rate. It is a recognized and common technique in PUA.
Example: I had a conversation with a girl in Hong Kong at a cosmetics store in Causeway Ring. "I just went to look at cosmetics. There are many beautiful women in the cosmetics store. When I saw a customer who easily scored 9 points, I said, 'Hello, I need advice.'".
A friend of mine in New York asked me to buy her an all-in-one facial mask, but I didn't know much about these things. The salesman just seemed to want to sell my expensive products. Do you know which brands have reasonable prices and good quality?
Later, the woman introduced the brand she had used. I did two basic routines to change the topic. We talked about bars and local humanities in Hong Kong. This chat up opening line adapts to any venue, occasion, and atmosphere - my favorite!
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2. Introductory dialogue with brave style
Characteristics: Direct, strong and powerful opening line for conversation. Usually, sexual elements are directly introduced into the conversation language, suitable for use in nightclubs such as bars.
"I cannot satisfy every woman present, but I have decided to give you a chance (with a smile on my face)
"I'm sitting next to you, aren't you in a rut?" (Smiling)
"Are your hands clean? Female: Clean, well, you can come with me when I go to the bathroom later (smiling)
People say that this kind of chat up opening line usually has a low hit rate. According to my experience, about one in five women will respond. Although the hit rate is low, the advantage is that if you are looking for it, it can also be a very time saving approach.
Of course, this approach has many limitations and few opportunities for application. Although this method does not work for most people, it does not mean it does not work for a small number of people.
I have used it several times in nightclubs (for girls brought out by friends), and the effect is very good, a bit of a pure male style. They all thought I was joking. Never used it with strangers; I think there are better ways to approach strangers in nightclubs.
3. Location mode pickup opening line
Characteristics: Humor, high success rate. Suitable for chatting up individually or in groups.
Example: In a restaurant or coffee shop, when you see a table with a target and there are empty chairs (movable chairs), ask: Is there anyone here? The target usually says no, they think you just want to take an empty chair and go somewhere else; Then, with a bright smile, he sat down and said, "My friend is arriving in a few minutes. Let me accompany you.".
This is one of my favorite styles, low risk, high return. "They cannot leave immediately, nor can they disregard their manners and drive you away.".
As long as you can capture the interests of one of the women in a minute or two (not necessarily the interests of the target, but also her friends), you can integrate into their group.
The only reason I don't like this approach is that it costs money. Buying a glass of things is not very economical. If your goal is to get 30 calls today, that would be troublesome.
4. Humor Style Chat Up Opening Line
Characteristics: Social identity, immediate display of value.
Example: Once in a small bar, I asked the bartender to do some magic tricks. He quickly reversed a glass, but the water didn't come out. I tried on the spot. Of course, when the water comes out (it doesn't matter at all), it splashes everywhere with smiles, and everyone watches this scene, some of them just smile.
"I immediately placed my glass in front of the bar next door (she just saw that scene), and when I mentioned you, she smiled and tried again, and of course she poured out the water.". Everyone is laughing. Immediately we had a connection (we had an interesting experience). And then naturally began to talk.
"This conversation opener requires opportunity and flexibility. The advantage is that with enough experience, both opportunity and flexibility can be controlled.". In nightclubs, this is my favorite style!
5. Introduction to simple style chat up
Features: Direct and simple, suitable for beginners. Not suitable for use in nightclubs; The chance of raising pigeons is high.
Example: "Hi, I want to meet you."
"Hey, I think you look good dressed. What's your name?"
"I passed by here and thought you were very elegant. What's your name?"
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