For a man, marrying a daughter-in-law is equivalent to signing a loan contract with the bank for more than ten years. From the day of marriage, the Chinese man's career of being a man of burden has officially begun
>>Q: What kind of man is a good man in a woman's mind?
A: Rich men.
Q: What kind of man is the most attractive man in women's eyes? A: Rich men.
Q: What kind of man is a good man in a woman's mind?
A: Rich men.
Q: What kind of man is the most attractive man in women's eyes?
A: Rich men.
Q: What kind of man is the most suitable husband for women?
A: Rich men.
Of course, there are not so many "rich men" in the real world. In fact, most men are ordinary men who barely get a wife and work hard to afford a house. Some time ago, there were such statistics on the cost of men's wives in major cities in China's north and south. It was found that no matter Beijing or Shanghai, no matter Guangzhou or Shenzhen, or second-tier or third-tier cities, men who want to marry a wife have to have a house and car! That is to say, in a big city like Beijing and Shanghai, if there is no less than two million people, it is impossible to get a decent wife. Even in a second-tier or third-tier city, it will take hundreds of thousands to make a foundation!
For many men in today's society, their girlfriend's tender "Honey, let's get married" is more exciting than metal rock music in their ears, because it means that from today on, we should be ready to raise money!
The house and car should be complete, the bank account should not be negative, the honeymoon travel should not be around in the domestic travel, the wedding hotel is not five-star dishonorable... Of course, men have no right to oppose these proposals of the prospective wife, because the woman's reason is justified: "Marriage is once in a lifetime, you are so stingy, are you ready to save money to pay for a second time?"
I can't bear such a big charge! There is only one way to obey! Therefore, marriage is really exciting and depressing for modern men!
The same is true of marriage, which means different to everyone: for men, it means to have a family and start a career and follow their children; For women, it is to plan their life's food and clothing; For men's parents, it is to complete the glorious task of being parents; For women's parents, it is to enjoy the honor and dignity of their daughter's marriage.