Post Date December, 03 2023
What do men want most after marriage? After marriage, men hope to be free and have their own private space.
I hope that both husband and wife can be frank with each other... Here are the five marriage states that men most want. Are you in this state?
When you understand the desire for free space in men's hearts, you will feel that home is sometimes the cage in the zoo for men - in the cage, what men really want is the free forest and grassland.
Men like the following five marital states most.
1. Private space
Many newlywed men will complain to their buddies that there is no longer the old days! "The previous days" means to spend time freely and do whatever you want.
But once married, the man felt that he had become a "yo-yo ball" in his wife's hand - he ran a little farther and was pulled back by the line in his wife's hand!
2. Speak up
"What can't be said directly?" Many men have made such complaints. Women love to express their ideas in a roundabout way. No wise man can keep up with women's brains.
Especially after conflicts occur, women take a "indifferent" attitude - "cold violence", such as not speaking, not having access to the phone, not eating, not having a room, and so on. In fact, men want to deal with problems between two people in a simple way.
3. Dynamic relaxation
In addition to sleeping and necessary work, men always seem to like to move - no doubt they are keen on outdoor sports such as playing ball and climbing mountains.
Even at home, they should have music with them. If you want a man to stay quietly, he will be bored.
4. Informal
Take off your shoes at home and swing them with your feet instead of putting them in the shoe cabinet; Sleep late in the morning and don't fold the quilt; Brush the dishes after they are used up; There are many such things.
Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women's strict rules will only make men nervous.
5. Not willing to finance
If men spend as much as they earn when they are single, don't expect them to change after marriage. They think that personal finance is a very troublesome thing. It is better to put their experience on hobbies.
So men give the financial power of the family to women because they are too lazy to bother.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
