If you don't love her, how can you be ashamed to say you love her? "It hurts women to attract more love from them, so what should we pay attention to when we love women?"? How can a man give a woman enough security?
Men should pay attention to:
1. When you love a girl, remember to often say to her, "I love you.". No matter how many times she has said it, no matter how many times she asks you, "Do you love me?" When she says, "I love you," you must sincerely say, "I love you too, not in other words or feeling redundant.".
2. If you don't love her anymore, let her go. Don't enjoy her care and tenderness in vain. And then casually looking for other girls, after finding them, they say let's break up, or they can just walk in two boats.
3. Don't always act like a big man in front of your friend and her friends. A woman's willingness to take care of you and satisfy your older man's preferences for "three obedience and four virtues" is because she loves you and pampers you, but it does not mean that she is willing to be treated as a servant or vassal.
4. No matter how small you promised her, you should do it. Women all want to have a strong shoulder to rely on and want to tell you everything about them, but if you can't even do small things well, how can she rely on you?
When she says something you don't approve of, don't blame or be indifferent, so how can she trust you to tell you everything from her heart?
5. Before doing everything, the first thing to consider is her! True love does not require so much rhetoric or deliberate skill. True love only needs heart. Men love women, and the most touching thing is the genuine pain and love.
6. A woman always has a few days during her menstrual period, which cannot be controlled with reason. No matter how hysterical, unreasonable, or moody she may be, you should coax her to tolerate her. Never show displeasure or impatience.
7. Don't always yearn to say that you want three wives and four concubines. Say that ancient men were really happy. Say that you want three people. She treats you as her only, and she wants you to treat her as her only. As you often say, can she rest assured that you can go out and meet your sister and friends?
Don't always praise your beauty confidant in front of her, and don't care more about other women than she does. A woman is a sensitive animal. She doesn't distrust you, she just cares too much about you, and I hope you can do the same.