Post Date December, 03 2023
The man who gives in is the most acceptable man. A man who does not know how to make concessions for his relatives, friends, women, and partners is the most incompetent and unforgivable person who lacks breadth of mind.
The most important sign of a young man is that he is fighting with his own people and his beloved family members pointlessly, regardless of whether they win or lose.
Those men who seem to love face very much are actually filled with self-confidence and cowardice in their hearts. Men who pretend to be tough men and never admit mistakes or give in are often filled with jealousy and narrowness in their hearts, making it difficult for sunlight to enter their hearts.
What is a mature man? Very gentle towards family and loved ones. As gentle as a child, as a woman. Externally and facing difficulties, without fear, resolute, unhurried, and calm. Men who are prone to disputes with their loved ones and refuse to concede any land, even if they have to contend for verbal victory or defeat, can guarantee that they will do nothing outside.
When a woman takes one step back, a man takes two steps back. A person who knows love would rather play the role of a loser than defeat his relatives, lovers, and friends. What do you get by defeating them? What can it prove? An excellent man will not brag, compete, or compete against his beloved.
Love: Compromise, compromise. "Concession is not retreat, nor subordination to power, but respect for different views and opinions, and do not compete for authority in the presence of people you like and love.".
A man who understands love and compromise is the most acceptable man. Meeting someone is your luck, and it's a lifetime of good luck.
No matter how smart, wealthy, or powerful you are, at the moment of a person's anger, your IQ is zero, and after a minute it returns to normal.
Remember: Never make any decisions when you are angry!
The key to a person's elegance lies in controlling their emotions. Using their mouths to harm others is the most foolish behavior. Our lack of freedom is usually caused by negative emotions from within that affect us.
Remember: A person who can control bad emotions is stronger than a person who can win a city.
"Deep water makes the flow slow, and late speech makes people expensive.". "We spent two years learning to speak, but decades learning to shut up.".
Remember: speaking is an ability; Without saying, it is a kind of wisdom.
1. It's urgent, speak slowly
When faced with urgent matters, if you can think deeply and then speak clearly without being impatient, it will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thereby increasing others' trust in you.
2. Little things, humorously
In particular, some friendly reminders, expressed in a joke, will not make the listener feel stiff. They will not only gladly accept your reminders, but also enhance their sense of intimacy.
3. Uncertainties, speak cautiously
If you don't say things you're not sure about, others will think you're hypocritical; If you can speak carefully, it will make people feel that you are a trustworthy person.
4. Don't talk nonsense about what didn't happen
People hate people who make trouble out of nothing. If you never casually speculate or talk nonsense about things that don't exist, it will make people feel that you are mature and cultivated, and that you are a conscientious and responsible person.
5. Don't talk nonsense about things you can't do
As the saying goes, "Don't work on porcelain without diamond.". Not easily committing to things you cannot do will make the listener feel that you are a "person who believes in what you say, and is willing to believe in what you do.".
6. You can't say anything that hurts someone
Do not easily use words to hurt others, especially between closer people, and do not say harmful words. This will make them feel that you are a kind person, helping to maintain and enhance relationships.
7. Don't tell anyone about sad things
When people are sad, they all have a desire to talk, but if they speak to others, it can easily cause psychological stress on the listener, causing suspicion and alienation from you. At the same time, you will also leave the impression that you are not considerate of others and want to pass on the pain to others.
8. Be careful about other people's affairs
"People need a safe distance between themselves, and not easily commenting on and disseminating others' affairs can give people a sense of security in their interactions.".
9. Listen to what others say about your own business
Listen to outsiders' opinions on your own affairs, which can give a modest impression; Second, it will make people feel that you are a reasonable person.
10. Listen more and speak less about your elders
Older people often don't like young people to make too many comments on their own affairs. If young people say too much, they will feel that you are not a respectful, modest, and eager person.
11. The matter of husband and wife is discussed
"The biggest fear between couples is to blame each other for something, and mutual consultation can have a" compassionate "effect, which can enhance their feelings.".
12. Tell me about the children
Especially in adolescence, children are very rebellious. Adopting a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten can not only make children feel good about you and willing to become friends with you, but also play a persuasive role.
