Post Date December, 03 2023
Recently, Fa Xiaonan has returned. Due to the fact that she has rarely met her boyfriend outside of town before, and the lack of contact with her work, she has made an appointment to meet this time.
Xiaonan told me that he doesn't plan to go out anymore and has found another job here. I'm completely surprised, but what about your boyfriend? Does he agree? Isn't he getting married soon?
She faintly said, "We're apart, I haven't had time to tell you. After being together for so long, I didn't realize he's such an irresponsible person. Pregnancy is the only way to test a person's sincerity." The more she said, the sadder she became, and she couldn't help but cry.
Xiao Nan has been dating this boyfriend for several years, and I have also seen both sides. The image shows a cynical demeanor, and they are extremely affectionate when they get along. In their circle of friends, the show of affection is so showy that they can reach the end together. Friends also believe that they can reach the end together, but they are not stingy with their blessings. Xiao Nan was also moved one by one.
Later, Xiaonan followed him back to his boyfriend's city, and the two of them were determined to pursue a career, but who would have thought it would become what it is now.
At that time, Xiao Nan was pregnant and planned to take advantage of the situation to hold the wedding. However, when he showed the examination results to his boyfriend, he said that we were still young and didn't have good jobs. We were in a hurry to have a child and couldn't afford it. Xiao Nan burst into tears as soon as she heard it, saying that I really want to live a more peaceful life. It's okay, we can work together.
After several controversies, Xiaonan still couldn't resist her boyfriend, and finally was taken to the hospital for an abortion. Later, Xiaonan asked him, 'Have you ever planned to marry me responsibly?'?
My boyfriend's words are blocked, of course not. I just don't want a child yet. Xiaonan feels that his boyfriend doesn't love her that much, and it's not a matter of irresponsibility, but rather an attitude issue. He only thinks about himself and doesn't care about her feelings.
In fact, what women want is really simple, and pregnancy is not a one-sided matter. Moreover, at this time, girls are all rational and do not cry and insist on leaving a child. Instead, they will combine the reality and various factors of family emotions to make a decision whether to have a child or not.
So what she needs is not your negation. She said that the future is long and the timing is not suitable. These reasons don't need to be explained by you. I haven't even said that we must keep our children. Do you need to be so anxious to give me a blow? At least don't be so anxious. Let's all calm down and think together to make a decision, can't we?
If a man really loves you, the details cannot escape your eyes. It's probably when you stay up late, he doesn't say good night, but stays up late with you; When you are in your physiological period, he doesn't mean to drink more hot water, but directly brings you brown sugar water; When you're sick, he doesn't mean you remember to take the medicine, but he just buys it and delivers it downstairs; When you got pregnant unexpectedly, he didn't say that I wasn't capable yet, but that if you didn't mind, I would try my best to support this family.
The person who loves you will not make you feel exhausted. Good love will make you a better person. If you are not suitable, let go. Please do not close your eyes or ears, be a deserter of love, and harm yourself as a scammer.
Miss M, a literary and artistic woman, is finally with Mr. X, the male god she has long admired. After getting together, the two of them ate together every day and went to the study room together, but Mr. X never said a word to Miss M that I like you.
Miss M, she belongs to the type of person who needs to hang out on social media when buying a new piece of clothing. She posts a lot of comments every day, and each one has a lot of words. Day after day, I am looking forward to Mr. X's comments, even if it's a zan, but time and time again, I am disappointed.
To Miss M's surprise, there were countless small details in her life that revealed that Mr. X had indeed read her circle of friends seriously and had a crush on her.
Miss M, I don't know what to wear to participate in club activities. Please ask Mr. X for his opinion. Mr. X, could you quickly send her a photo, which is exactly what has appeared in her social circle.
Two people went out to eat together, but Miss M wanted to eat hot pot, but was rejected by Mr. X. The reason is: Miss M has a bad stomach and had diarrhea last week after eating hot pot. Miss M has never mentioned the issue of hot pot diarrhea to Mr. X, but she casually mentioned it in her friend circle before. Unexpectedly, he remembers it.
Miss M said she doesn't know if this is love. After all, she rarely hears the vulgar but most touching sentence from Mr. X: I love you.
But if you keep these small details of life in mind, and all kinds of care in all aspects are not considered love, then what is it?
Sometimes, love is not expressed through the mouth, it is an emotion that can be expressed even when the mouth is closed, in the eyes and actions.
Yesterday we went for a massage, and there was also a couple who went with us. The girl looked mentally drained. On the way upstairs, her boyfriend looked disgusted and asked, "Why didn't you wash your hair today? It's greasy and disgusting
The girl's voice was a bit aggrieved: "I feel uncomfortable. I slept too poorly last night, and now I have a terrible headache and toothache. My aunt is here, and I have dysmenorrhea
The boy said again, "Then you can't go out without washing your hair. Look at how you don't put on makeup even when you go out. The bags under your eyes are so big, and the circles around your eyes are all black. If you tidy up and go out, it's not just the two of us, but also someone else." I and the other two of us didn't speak.
The girl was obviously not very happy either. "Then I really feel uncomfortable. You slept like hell, so I slept for three hours. You said I would come with you for a massage, but now that I walk with a heavy head and a light foot, why are you still picky
The boy didn't answer the girl's question and continued to criticize, "Look at six. They're all girls, and they even know how to wear high heels and shorts. Look at what you're wearing, where's your usual good looks? What a shame now." The girl looked at me apologetically and didn't even speak again.
I really want to shout in my heart after hearing this: "Oh, shit. What are you doing with me for example? It's really annoying." Dysmenorrhea is about a nightmare for many women, and I understand that girl very well. I also have dysmenorrhea, and my stomach hurts to the point of crying. I heard that serious girls often feel nauseous in those days. I'm really restless, lying in bed is also sad, sitting up is also sad, I don't want to go anywhere, just want to finish quickly.
I think the girl is really nice. If it were me, I might not have come out at all. I have dysmenorrhea, I have a headache, I have a toothache, I feel uncomfortable. You haven't said a word of comfort from beginning to end, and you're still criticizing me there. What do I want you to do?
In a relationship, there is nothing we can or cannot do, only want or not want. Apart from all these hesitations, they are all excuses for not loving enough. We have all passed the stage of listening to love, and sweet words are never better than being practical.
There are two things in the world that you cannot cover up. One is poverty, and the other is love. If you truly love someone, whether you express it or not, the other person knows. And if he doesn't like it, he won't care about everything about you. Even if you confess a thousand times, you will still be rejected.
Love is like drinking water, knowing the warmth and coldness of oneself. Those who love you naturally care about everything about you, but those who do not love you, why bother to force yourself again?
I have heard a saying: If you love me as much as I love you, then you will understand my silence and my sadness. People can lie, but details are not. No matter how many love words and roses, they are not as good as the umbrella you hold up for me on a rainy day.
Perhaps, the subtle happiness in the ordinary world through mutual influence is the most authentic form of love.
