Do you believe it? On the display board of the marriage registration office, there are even some shocking words, such as "men's occasional infidelity, sometimes don't take it too seriously", "excellent people, both men and women, will be a turnip for several holes". After someone raised an objection, the registration office said that it would replace the display board
"Warm prompt" is too warm
On December 14, Yang Hong and her boyfriend went to the marriage registration office in Dadong District, Shenyang City to register their marriage. Because there were so many people at that time, Yang Hong and her boyfriend noticed the display board hanging on the wall while waiting in line. "There is a 'warm reminder' on the display board, but I feel uncomfortable after reading it." Yang Hong said, and the display board said: "Sometimes it is not necessary to take too seriously the occasional cheating of men."
Yang Hong said that she felt that the contents were all aimed at women. "Why didn't they remind men of the terms? Is it the fault of women when marriage went wrong, just because women didn't forgive their husbands?"
Fortunately, the display board is not very "conspicuous"
On the east wall of the service hall for marriage registration, there are four display boards with "Warm Tips" written on them. Each display board has about 600 or 700 words. On the third display board from the left hand, it is written that "one radish, one pit, refers to the marriage situation. In fact, love is not tenable. Excellent people, both men and women, will be one radish and several pits..."
On the other display board, the words "decades of love are not easy, and men's occasional infidelity sometimes need not be taken seriously" appear. The reporter found that the content on the display board is to persuade people to properly handle the relationship between husband and wife in a slightly humorous tone. The position of the display board is not noticeable. The reporter asked three pairs of new people who have completed the formalities, and the other side said that "they did not pay attention to what was written on it".
The "problem display board" will be replaced soon
When asked by the reporter, a male staff member of the marriage registration office said that the display boards had been hung for three or four years. "These contents were found online, and our original intention was to help the registered couple." "Before that, did anyone report that the contents of the display boards were uncomfortable?" someone asked.
"Not before." He explained, "These two words, one is to persuade couples to cherish their feelings, the other is to say that excellent men and women may have many suitors before marriage, and the public may have misinterpreted the meaning." He also said that the "problem display board" will be replaced in the near future. "Since some city residents have raised questions, we will pay attention to it, and even if only one person looks uncomfortable, we will correct it."
People generally disagree with Lei Ren's exhibition board
What do citizens think of this kind of thunderous display board? Yesterday, the reporter interviewed 10 citizens randomly, 7 of whom said that it was "inappropriate". Here are some of them.
Ms. Qin: These statements are very strange. Why should women tolerate them? Comprehension should be mutual, and there is no unilateral tolerance.
Ms. Liu: The maintenance of husband and wife's feelings and marriage is not the accommodation of each other, but mutual respect and accommodation. Emphasizing that women tolerate their husbands' occasional infidelity is actually a great accommodation for their husbands.
Mr. Lin: Isn't the metaphor "radish pit" appropriate? At least it is not comfortable to appear at the marriage registration office. The registered newcomers came with joy. After reading this, they probably felt like they had been splashed with cold water.
Mr. Zhu: "Women sometimes don't have to pay too much attention to men's cheating." This sentence is actually a bitter pill. If the husband can correct his mistakes, the marriage can still be maintained, and the other party can't be killed with a stick if he has some mistakes. As for the "turnip pit" section, people feel that there is a bad inducement tendency.