Even a man with a strong exterior can hide some little secrets in his heart. To grasp a man's heart, one must first understand his weaknesses. So what are some of the little-known weaknesses of men in love?
Men have a strong sense of self-esteem, and the important reason why they are unwilling to actively reveal their feelings to their loved ones is their fear of being ridiculed, especially by their favorite woman.
Men's self-esteem is as fragile as an egg, and they want to express their best qualities and be recognized by the other person. If they are inadvertently seen by the closest woman as their weaknesses, they will feel very ashamed. As men, their duty is to protect women. If women look down on them instead, it's really a shame.
A woman wants to know about her man's past, and even treats his ex girlfriend and first love as potential lovers. Most men don't actively disclose their love history, not because they are still remembering something, but because they don't want their previous relationship to affect their current life.
Men all know that women are sensitive, and if they say something they shouldn't say, they may feel like they owe you something, which can make men a bit afraid to mention old things.
Women like fairy tale love, and although such love does not exist at all, most women still enjoy living in such fantasies. Women like to control men, and it's a way of pulling a weight. For example, if they're in a bad mood but haven't cried yet, then men must come over and comfort themselves.
Women cannot listen to the truth most because it is often not very pleasant to hear. Women's emotions always imply that men cannot speak the truth and must be coaxed with gentle soft language. After a long period of life, many men will no longer be interested in this, and conflicts will increase.
Women want to understand the most real side of men, and they don't want their partner to hide anything from them.
However, it is also beneficial to know that "curiosity kills cats" by appropriately pretending to be deaf and dumb. "You need to trust your own men. The reason why they don't say it is because they have their own difficulties. If you repeatedly inquire about it, men will feel that you don't trust him enough, and the two will have even greater conflicts.".
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)