I have always believed in reason to travel around the world, but when I got home, I couldn't get through. It was clear that she didn't pay attention, but in the end, she blamed me. If others are unreasonable towards me, I can argue with them, but if my wife is unreasonable and doesn't follow your example, I really can't do anything about her.
Once, after arguing with my wife, I thought of her domineering behavior and was so angry that I ran to a friend to list her various negative effects. My friend said, "What couples talk about is originally 'love' rather than 'reason'. She doesn't act coquettishly or play tricks in front of you. Who do you want her to go to
On closer reflection, this statement really makes sense. Although we are already "husband and wife", my wife still pouts and gambles with me from time to time. I know that she actually hopes that I can still coax her, let her, and spoil her like I did when I was in love. As long as you can persuade and be reasonable, she will be obedient. Think about how many couples, in order to gain the upper hand and gain a "reason," end up losing both ways; Think about how many families, struggling to discern right from wrong, are constantly entangled and scarred. After understanding this principle, I began to adhere to the principle of "being lenient and forgiving others" at home, no longer taking small matters seriously. My high posture has earned my wife countless tenderness, and my verbal provocation has disappeared. The family's "peace agreement" has been jointly observed.
No wonder a Taiwanese person said that to be a "new good husband", one must remember the phrase "a wife will never be wrong". Although this statement may have the suspicion of being afraid of the family, it helps to maintain stability and unity in the family. Besides, it is already quite popular to be afraid of your wife due to the prosperity of yin and the decline of yang. Why not be laughed at by others for being "henpecked"?
Hey, home is not a place to reason and settle accounts, so it's better not to reason with your wife!
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)