Post Date December, 03 2023
Among the male and female counselors who came to me for help, some young men and women, due to objective reasons such as self-evaluation, mutual evaluation, personality traits, family models, communication skills, etc. at the beginning of their relationship, did not reach the end of their relationship and died prematurely midway through. Due to her/him investing too much time, material, and emotional resources in love, the other party feels particularly distressed, confused, and angry, and even has a violent tendency to attack or commit suicide. When she/he comes to me for help.
How will you face the end of love?
After I heard his/her story, I said: I understand your experience, and I also had this experience when I was young. So, when a man and a woman fall in love, it's like a game. During the process of this game, due to objective factors, one of them suggests to the other that the game is over. So, when it's confirmed that it's irreversible, you should learn to let go, strongly hold back, or engage in extreme behavior, Is it in vain? Not actively and calmly facing problems, but avoiding behavior, or even illegal behavior? Let's jointly interpret the poet: Xi Murong - "Youth without Complaints"
When you are young, if you fall in love with someone, please be gentle with them. No matter how long or short you have been in love, if you can always be gentle with each other, then all moments will be a flawless beauty, If you have to part, you should also say goodbye well and keep gratitude in your heart. Thank you to him for giving you a memory. Only when you grow up can you know that in the moment you suddenly look back, there will be no regrets in your youth, just like the quiet full moon on the mountain.
You should truly see that since you cannot hold onto the other person's footsteps, then let them go. Love is a highly interactive game between two people, and you should thank them. In this relationship, you have grown up and learned how to face the vicissitudes and helplessness of life and emotions. Now, you are a free bird that can soar freely in the blue sky, and your time and space have become wider, You should actively and happily welcome a fresh, bright, and hot tomorrow. Just like the song title, let go of beauty - I will be fine
