Post Date December, 03 2023
There is no doubt that long-distance love is absolutely the most difficult to maintain. Although there are many examples of failure, it does not mean that long-distance love will fail. As long as both parties grasp the skills of maintaining long-distance love and trust each other's feelings, we can still give this love a good continuation.
1. Firmly believe in each other's feelings
First of all, we should remember that in a love relationship, two people are a community.
So our contribution to this feeling should be the joint efforts and faith of both parties.
At any time, the relationship between two people should be considered in the first place of emotion, and we should not only think about how convenient we are, but also worry about not seeing her.
You should know that when she can't see you, her mood will also be low. If she quarrels because of this difficulty, it will be more than worth the loss. It will only make the distance between your hearts farther and farther.
When dealing with feelings, we should have a sense of confidence, and do not consume this valuable relationship because of any unnecessary problems.
The more unequal and unbalanced the relationship between two lovers, the longer the relationship will not last, even if it is not long-distance.
2. Trust and freedom
Couples separated from each other can't see each other, so they don't know the actual situation of each other. In this way, it is inevitable that many questions or suspicions will arise.
At this time, you need to be very patient. The other party is only concerned about you. Don't think it is checking the post, or it will cause a quarrel.
Similarly, even though boys are very worried about girls, they should still remember the importance of trust. Don't check her and suspect her.
Love is based on understanding and trust. Don't easily doubt your other half, but trust your first choice.
3. More communication
The problem of distance has led to the inability to meet each other frequently, so the network or telephone communication has become a bridge for mutual emotional exchange.
When you call or video, you can exchange what you hear and see and send words of concern to each other, which can draw close to each other's feelings. Don't feel troublesome or impatient, or the other party will think nonsense, which is not conducive to the long-term development of the relationship. Remember that a successful relationship must be based on communication.
To care about each other's situation, be gentle and careful, pay more attention to her feelings, and share the interesting things in each other's life. In addition to emotional resonance, let the two people's lives basically stay on the baseline of mutual understanding.
4. Meet as many as possible
Frequent meeting is crucial for maintaining long-distance relationships.
It is better to meet once every two weeks or a month. Meeting once every other time avoids the aversion of meeting every day. Instead, people will cherish the opportunity and time of meeting each other more, which is more conducive to the heating up of long-distance love.
If objective conditions restrict you from meeting, then you should know that feelings can only be maintained by meeting. We live in a real world, and words alone are absolutely not enough.
Use your efforts to meet as much as possible is your due awareness of this relationship.
5. Romance and surprise
Romance and surprise are inevitable in long-term emotional run-in, which can't be achieved by phone and video. Especially on birthdays or special holidays, when you can't be with each other, you should carefully prepare a gift to let her know that you always miss her and love her.
Or if you appear in front of the other person inadvertently, you will surely make the other person moved and feel your good intentions, so that your feelings will not be unconsciously improved.
6. Learn to express emotions
Some boys are not good at words, and feel that love is expressed in action, and should not be spoken frankly.
But because of the distance, girls can't see your action. At this time, we can express our inner feelings and express our attitude towards feelings through telephone, video, e-mail and other communication tools to reassure the other party.
When you express your feelings, the other party can appreciate your efforts and efforts to your feelings, and have a more intuitive understanding of your feelings. Only in this way can we enhance the temperature of our feelings.
Marriage is a major event in life. Many people plan to get married when. But when is the right time to get married? Look at the following signals to let you know whether you are ready to have a marriage!
1. Stable relationship with partner
I believe no one will object to it. Is stable relationship the first condition for marriage? Some people will think that ten years of love is stability, and some people have a stable love in only two or three years.
How to call it stability is that you are familiar with each other's preferences, temperament and habits. There are fewer and fewer places to break in, and the number of quarrels decreases, so you know that you have completely accepted such a person and let him enter your life.
2. The other party has a positive attitude towards marriage
Marriage is not a personal matter, but also depends on whether your partner has the same meaning. If your partner is not prepared, how do you want him to accept you as the person he will spend his whole life with?
If your partner usually mentions information about the wedding, for example, many of his friends are married, or he has begun to calculate the wedding expenses, then you know that he has plans to get married! Therefore, partner's attitude is also one of the signals!
3. At the age of marriage
Admittedly, age is also a factor that lets you know when you want to get married. Although some people do not like to follow the secular set, like to marry late or early. But when you reach the marriageable age, many friends around you have started their marriage, and you may also be influenced by them to think whether you also need to give your partner a name.
Especially couples who want to have children after marriage should consider the time of marriage. Because the older the mother is, the greater the impact on the baby's health. Many research reports have pointed out that babies born to older mothers are more likely to suffer from diseases. Therefore, the marriageable age is also a hint to let you know whether you should plan to get married or not.
4. Start to imagine married life
Have you ever imagined your married life in the dead of night, or when looking at your partner who is sleeping by the bed?
When you think that you can see your partner or even your love crystallization every day when you go home in the future, do you feel relieved?
Some people have no concept of marriage in their minds, and never imagine their life after marriage; But if you have such an imagination and even have a vision of marriage, then you may have a desire to marry in your heart. Then, quickly plan how to propose to your partner!
5. Make sure you love each other
When you and your partner enter the stage of stable love, some people will let the love fade because of losing novelty, and even end the relationship; Therefore, when your relationship has become stable and many things have become habits, do you still feel that the person in front of you is your lifelong partner?
If you suddenly have an impulse to "I must marry/marry him", then this is the most obvious and powerful signal to let you know that you really should marry and build a family!
No matter what reason you marry, marriage is a sacred thing, not only because marriage has legal effect, but because it is a commitment to your partner. Therefore, it is necessary to consider clearly and know that this is what you really want before you make the promise of this life! So, boys, don't forget to work hard and try to shorten the distance between you. Give your girlfriend a visible future. The distance can be shortened. The most important thing is to let your lover see the hope, break through the restrictions of time and space, and both parties work hard to cheer up. Even long-distance love can have a good result.
