Post Date December, 02 2023
There is no absolute thing in the world, and even for a relationship, not all love needs to be saved. Sometimes, letting go may be the best relief. So how do we measure whether a relationship needs to be saved? We need to work out a good account.
First of all, we must be clear in our hearts before settling accounts.
What are the benefits and troubles this love has brought to you. We can write down these benefits and troubles on paper. If you really don't know how to write it, write ten benefits and ten troubles. Then, the standard full score is 10 points, and then measure the component value of each item. Then add up all the benefits and troubles separately, and finally compare which score is higher, and then decide whether the relationship should continue.
Secondly, if we use the above rational method, we still cannot distinguish between male and female. Then we can try to ask ourselves a few questions and listen to the most authentic answers within ourselves.
Sometimes love is just a spring dream, should we retrieve and listen to our hearts? For example, we can ask ourselves: If we break up now, will you regret it five years later? If your answer is yes, then you should have come out and started a new life again. So for you, what you need most now is the courage to break this relationship and start anew. If you feel in your heart that in five years' time, you should still be thinking about each other and looking for all their footprints, then for you, you may really need to try your best to retrieve this relationship.
Once again, when we decide to retrieve love, we also need to grasp the degree.
If the other party also loves us, then we can disregard everything for love. "But if the other person is not optimistic about the relationship, it is necessary to think twice before taking action to save the love.". A while ago, there was a particularly popular video online. The content may be as follows: A Hubei girl and a boy have been in love for more than two years. The girl's family is relatively rich, while the boy's family is relatively poor. The girl's mother does not agree with her daughter to get along with the boy, so she takes 200000 yuan to let the boy leave. Later, the boy didn't ask for the 200000 yuan and left the girl on his own. Later, the boy also made a new girlfriend. During the more than a year between seeing the boy again, the girl searched for him in every corner of the world, began to stay at home all day without work, smoke and drink, and even committed suicide. After the girl finally saw the truth, she wept bitterly and said, "I always thought you cared about me as much as I cared about you, but I didn't expect you to have a new lover." So in the process of recovering our love, we must make a good balance, and what is the most we can do for ourselves? Exceeding this amount requires moderation. At the same time, give yourself a deadline to see how the other person reacts. Sometimes letting go may be the best outcome.
