When falling in love, we really need to know the other person's psychology, especially the boy who is about to fall in love with you. So how can we distinguish whether he is a man or a big boy? In fact, many times we can see it. Occasionally, childish people may feel good and lovable, always immature, and it will make people feel like they are about to grow up! Age is not the basis for discrimination, so how can you distinguish whether your "he" is a man or a boy?
1. Men are afraid of rejection, but they are not afraid to try at all. Boys are also afraid of being given credit cards, but they always like to appear indifferent because they are even more afraid of their self-esteem being hit by you.
2. Men know what they want and pursue it bravely. Boys may have vague concepts about what they want, but they don't really know. The boy doesn't think too much when making decisions, and even if he starts taking action, he doesn't put too much effort into pursuing. In summary, boys are passive, while men actively strive for what they want.
3. Men will plan for the future and strive to lay a solid foundation for marriage and family. The boy lives in the present, and he only plans which bar to go to this weekend to play. They have no ideas or plans for their future. In short, the feeling of 'breaking up if you can't walk' is probably like this.
4. Men are attracted to attractive women with charismatic temperament. They prefer intelligent and supportive women and choose partners with similar values to themselves. And in the eyes of the boy, there are only the hottest and wildest girls. Even if such a temperamental woman appears around him, he only looks at "whether it's a big chested sister".
5. When a man meets a good woman, he will actively approach and understand her. If it were a boy, he would only test your heart and not pursue you seriously. They may seem fearless and reckless, but in pursuing women, they only appear childish.
6. Men are willing to talk about topics that may embarrass them. He is very frank about his position and intentions. But the boy refused to talk about his true feelings, and he was not prepared to solve such a dilemma. Instead, he avoided these problems or made excuses to hide the fact that "he was actually just playing with you".
7. Men know how to dedicate themselves wholeheartedly to a woman. The boy is always' testing 'you - he won't take you completely seriously because he doesn't know if he's really ready. But in fact, because he is just a boy, no matter how good a girl he meets, he will never be ready for a day.
8. Men know how to live and socialize well. They are usually busy with their own careers or work, but they also know how to live a good life. Men's lives are not so boring that they only have to play games and sleep. They tend to be passionate about more hobbies, such as fitness, reading, travel, photography, and so on. The boy, on the other hand, gets drunk with his friends at the bar every night, or goes somewhere to have fun, grabs a hot girl, and a group of people eats and drinks. Or spend an entire weekend staying at home or playing games in an internet cafe.
9. Men will spend time thinking about what they want to become, or not wanting to be someone again. He will ponder where his value lies. In order to become a more successful person and bring a better life to the women around him, he is constantly making progress. On the other hand, boys have not yet established their own values and values, they cannot predict the future, and their ideas are often changing.
10. Compared to boys, men rarely speak insincerely, and most of what they say truly represents their thoughts. A man does what he says, but if he doesn't keep his promise, he will honestly tell you why. The boy often promises, "I won't just play games next time without listening to your phone", "I will definitely remember my next birthday", "I will go to the zoo with you next time"... However, there are not many things he truly achieves.
Conclusion: Men also need to gradually mature in order to give women a sense of security, so we must grow together well no matter when. For boys, it's even more so. Only mature and stable boys are what girls hope for. Who doesn't want their boyfriend to be a special man!!