The question of how old a man should choose a woman to be happy has always been a concern for men and a controversial topic.
Find a woman smaller than yourself
There may be a difference in age, but if the difference is too large, it can inevitably lead to embarrassment. Greed for a moment's pleasure, but if it doesn't work out, you'll have to guard your spiritual position and remember the mandarin duck. And, like the luxurious bathroom in a dilapidated house, with platinum chains and glass pendants... there is always some disharmony in life.
Marrying a woman 14 years younger than oneself is the most suitable
How many years older can a flower like girl accept a man who is older than herself? Professor Gu Niu from 38 College, based on the Book of Changes and relativity, has finally found the answer after fifty years of research: marry a man 14 years older than yourself!
The development of men and women is inherently asynchronous. When they first start school, girls in the same class are more mature than boys, and even taller than boys. And when I grew up, I met a girl in my class and realized that she was still that tall. When men are over fifty, they don't go around having a good time, while women have already passed menopause.
Men should be 1.2857 times older than women
If a girl finds the wrong partner and their marital life is disharmonious, they have to hold on or divorce. If we understand the physiological cycle of men and women earlier and set the age difference within a reasonable range, we can have a happy life.
Specifically, if a man is 1.2857 times the age of a woman, then the physical condition of both parties is basically equivalent. For example, women aged 20 and men aged 25; 30 year old women and 38 year old men; A 40 year old woman and a 51 year old man; A 49 year old woman and a 63 year old man. If a girl in her twenties directly marries a man who is 14 years older than herself, then it will become increasingly in sync.
The cycle for women is 7 years, while the cycle for men is 9 years
7 is a very mysterious number. Natural science research shows that any physical and chemical change represents the end at stage 7. In the West, 7 days are set as a week, and on the 7th day, one needs to go to church for worship to welcome the arrival of the next week. The Book of Changes in China sets the number of changes in all things as 7 7, which is 49, known as the number of Dayan.
The physiological changes of women also correspond to 7. Pregnancy in October is actually 40 cycles (7 days per cycle); After a girl is born, her growth and development cycle is 7 years; The marriage age for French girls is 14 years old, which is two 7-year cycles; In China, having sexual intercourse with a girl under the age of 14, whether voluntarily or not, is a crime.
Chinese people say that after three, there will be a qualitative change. After three cycles (21 years old), the girl's physiology begins to decline and gradually ages. The fourth cycle (21-28 years old) is a transitional period, and starting from the later period (24-28 years old), the appearance and body become worse and worse.
Women's cycle is 7 years old, men's cycle is 9 years old
Both men and women start to struggle in the seventh cycle. Women enter menopause and menopause at the age of 49 (7th year), while men reach the age of 63 (7th year), with an age difference of exactly 14 years.
In addition, the life cycle of a man is 81 years old (9 9 years), and it is rare for a man to live beyond this age. The Chinese say 'nine nine returns to one', which means that after nine 9s, everything returns to its original state. Counting nine cold days, after nine nines, we enter the spring warmth of the following year with blooming flowers.
The actual average lifespan of women is longer than that of men
In the Book of Changes, the yang line is a complete long line, while the yin line is two short lines that are disconnected from each other. So, women have two short cycles, namely two 49 years old (98 years old). But aren't there many old ladies who live to be 98 years old? This is because women's menstruation and childbirth damage their physical components, so their actual lifespan cannot reach 98 years old.
The conclusion drawn above is that when a girl looks for a boyfriend, her age should be 1.2857 times her own, with a maximum difference of 14 years. Of course, this is only a general theoretical value. A wise and intelligent girl should marry herself at the age of 25, at least find a fixed boyfriend, otherwise her youth will soon pass away.