Red beans are born in the southern kingdom, and how many branches come in spring? May you gather more, this thing is the most lovesickness. "The most frequent thing that long-distance lovers do in love is lovesickness, but even after experiencing more lovesickness, there will still be people who are not accustomed to lovesickness and feel torment and pain, which greatly increases the probability of long-distance breakups. However, in this long-distance love that suffers greatly from lovesickness, there are always people who can ignore distance and make love successful. Do you know how their long-distance love is successful?
Treat long-distance relationships correctly. Many people cannot bear to be separated from their loved ones, believing that long-distance relationships will eventually separate, so they initially rejected this love. In this way, even if it is a love that can be nurtured, it is strangled by them in the cradle. Generally speaking, long-distance love is indeed prone to various problems, but it is nothing more than the following three aspects: firstly, the loneliness and coldness that cannot be alleviated. Even if you can make phone calls now, it is still a voice that has been changed by technology. Even if you can communicate with videos, it is still a face constrained by the screen. Lovers live a life that they can hear and see but cannot truly touch and feel, which lacks the feeling of an accelerated heartbeat, Especially when one needs the other person and they are not by their side, this deepens this sense of loneliness even more; The second reason is that time weakens relationships. Two people are separated from each other and cannot do things that they can do together at the same time. Gradually, the topics become fewer and fewer. If you happen to have time while he is busy, you will feel less sweet. However, when he is free, you don't have time to chat with him. He also believes that love lacks warmth, and over time, time will gradually destroy your love, When you haven't been able to say a word for a long time, you will find that your love is fading away; The third is the mistress generated by distance, and people always say that distance produces beauty. However, long-distance lovers may find that distance produces more mistresses (reference: What to do if a third party intervenes in long-distance relationships). Indeed, the sense of constraint naturally disappears when the lover is not around. When we are lonely, if we can meet someone who understands us, our hearts may start to betray crazily. If the above three problems cannot be solved, then breaking up has indeed become inevitable. Therefore, in order to make long-distance relationships successful, it is necessary to view them correctly at the beginning. These phenomena are normal and we cannot avoid them, but we can solve them through our own efforts.
Understand empathy. Conflict in long-distance relationships is the most painful thing. If you argue loudly and turn off your phone, the other party will no longer be able to find you. You are like disappearing, with no trace to follow. This makes the other party feel pain, and the relationship will naturally be hurt. And those long-distance lovers who can cultivate positive results are very skilled in empathy. If I were you, turning off my phone and making you unable to find me would definitely break your heart. Therefore, I would rather argue with you on the phone until you have nothing to say, and I will explain it to you clearly. Communication is very important. If we don't even leave the opportunity to explain communication to lovers who are far away, love will naturally lose to distance. When encountering problems, learn to understand and tolerate, so that the other party can feel the happiness and happiness brought by love. Send greetings when free, occasionally talk on the phone Congee, write a letter, mail small gifts, "fly" to visit... These small surprises can keep love sweet. At the same time, the two will also set goals and work together to move forward, because the best love is to make each other better. I am not by your side, you have learned to be independent, you are not by my side, I have learned to be strong.
What long-distance love fears is not the distance between your city and my residence, which is tens of thousands of kilometers, but the distance between the two hearts getting further and further apart. A long-distance love that can achieve success must have two hearts tightly together, even if one is at the end of the earth and the other is at the cape of the sea. They have always believed that the earth is round, and as long as they keep moving forward, their best selves will meet you in love.